[Serious] Feeling depressed and useless now.

[Depressedboi]

hi. i hope no one will flame me for this, but i'm going to start by admitting that i'm not old enough to be in this forum. yes, im only 16. i somehow decided to start reading this forum to de-stress for O Levels (It's almost over). i find that the bros here seem to be nice people to confide in. i hope you guys can give me advice over this issue i'm harping on about.

first, i'm going to do some introduction about my life. i'm just an average 16-year-old kid in the streets. however, nobody, not even my friends seem to understand what kind of mental tug-of-war is constantly going on in my mind.

i'm very horny, sometimes to the point that i feel helpless. i need to "relive myself" quite often, usually once a day. whenever i see an attractive girl, blood would just rush through my body and accumulate down there. i accept that this is part of growing up.

my main problem is that after reading some stories about some of the bro's young sex experience, like during sec sch, i am in envy and jealous at the same time. a sense of misery also overwhelms me. i just feel that i've been missing out too much. i secretly wished that i was the one who is writing these stories, if you know what i mean. i thought my sec sch life was fun, but when i read these stories, i realized i was wrong.

you see, i'm in a neighbourhood school that is above average. hence, the people there are kind of like those who "potentially can enter top schools, but still not good enough". so, the girls that are very "guai" and nerdy type, whether they're good-looking or not. i also don't get to meet a lot of new people. consequently, entering this school will ensure that my social network remains small. so i don't get to write such wonderful stories.

to conclude, i secretly wish that i had gone through the "innocent and curious couple making exploration" kind of experience. i feel my precious 4 years of sec sch life had been dull and unfulfilled. of course, underage sex is not "right", but i'm sure at that age, you wished you could experience it. since O Level is over soon, i'm supposed to feel relaxed. but instead, i'm feeling stressed and having sleepless nights instead. sigh, i don't feel like living this life. hate it. i'm at lost about what i could do to overcome this dreadful feeling.

[Xensualize]

Firstly, they are not your bros. They are your uncles.

[Tai_zi21]

Xiao di di

let kor kor give u some advice here,1st u r only 16,wat kind of sex experience do u expect to have? threesome? sex in public places? how many samsters can claim that they have so much sex exp at the age of 16?

Try to build on ur circle of friends... keep in contact and u might not know wat will happen in the future? And feel confident abt urself at least

in the mean while HAPPY PCC

Cheers

[ThaiBeautiful]

16yo, It's just a stage of growing out

Don't need depressed and stressed over so much things. It might just be your exam stress. Learn to enjoy life!

LIFE is too short to be worried over these small issues. When you are older, more serious issues will come to you. Be strong, be a MAN!

After exams, just go out and have fun like all teenagers in your age! SEX is just not for you... you're underaged.

[dc1891]

Hey kiddo, your focus in life should be to study hard and play hard.

When you have a good education, good grades & a good attitude, a good career will come along, and that means good money. With that naturally, women will be in line for your picking.

But all being said, all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. Expand your circles of friends and have fun. Good clean fun.

What you go thru, most of us here goes thru that phase too. We also see "blue film" and fantasize and PCC too. Eventually we all jut grow out of it and seek the real stuff, when we start having money to spend.

You are normal and should not be stress about it.

[ferragamo]

U are an example of a genuine problem the Internet is creating among human beings

At 16 you are surfing forums about orgies, no doubt watching anal sex on porn tube etc..

You and many in your generation are growing up with a warped sense of sexuality

Instead of worrying about your o levels , you are in fact fretting that your sex life is boring at 16???? What do you expect? The canteen drinks aunty to feel horny, and suck your cock after school?

I really worry what the future holds for our young. And you are a bleak depiction of it.

See my English can be as powerful also because last time at 16 after I masturbate , I went back to my 10 year series workbook instead of worrying if I can have a 3some with my teacher and principal

[ddog]

You're filling your mind with bullcr*p. I had it worse, coming from an all boys school, my parents won't even let me mix with my female cousin! Till 20s.

[golden tongue]

After your O evel exam, you should go GL to look for those FL to have sex. very cheap. 60 bucks only.

After that, you'll have to worry where to see a doctor after you got infected by the girl, where to get money, where to get it treated. It'll make you even more depressed and useless than now. Ha Ha.

Boy, just concentrate on your studies and score good grade. Don't fret about missing all the sex and girls.

Your time will come when you start earning big money and girls will just flock to you without you making any move.

In the meantime, study hard.

[jasdude]

The young and the restless ! confused adolescence ! Its just a transitional stage that you will grow out of . My advise for you is to make lots of friends , study hard and stay away from SBF !

[smoofdeek]

only 16 and already exposed to sbf? I only got to know about sbf during ns, and I was already 22 then. all I can say is, I'm glad I didn't got to know this forum earlier, or I would have missed all those "innocent" fun times, heehee.

[kiss29]

Cheer up.
Life is ups and down.

School exams over....so naturally a student find no meaning in life.
Why not go popular to buy next year assessment books and practice.

Or play computer games.....the November and December will pass by very fast.

[2centsworth]

Do your best in the O levels. Everything changes at 17. Why? JC girls are more fun. Poly girls even better. The girls are 13-17 in sec school, 17-18 in JC and 17-20 in poly. The older the age range of the girls, the more fun you will have in school. Personal view.

[owl888]

Boy boy take up some ECAs or during your vacation do some part-time work. I think by socializing and networking more u will feel better and got no time for SBF and porn.

[MonteCristo]

No need to feel helpless about being horny.. It is just a stage where many experience, if it is of any comfort to you.

How do you define your worth? You deem yourself useless just because you didn't experience sex till now?

Find another avenue to channel your energy. You obviously have too much free time to be bothered by such trivial matters at such a tender age.

[James PCT]

boy sex is something norma la human need ma where do u came from ? u came from sex too