What Men Wants?

[melon96]

Originally Posted by LuSiWen

Hi people,

I am new to Sammyboy and recently got married. I'm interested in understanding what men desire when it comes to matters in the bedroom. I am eager to hear your genuine opinions and insights. Please feel free to share your thoughts.

Communicate openly with him, get to know what kinks or interests he has. Of course should meet both your desires

[denshachikan]

Enjoy the freshness of your marriage while it last.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but to most (note I used most, i.e. not all) men, "good food cannot beat freshness".

Eating chicken all day, no matter how you prepare it, braised, steamed, fried, stewed, boiled, etc, is still chicken. You can even make chicken satay, kebab, nuggets but some day, he (or even you) will still crave for duck.

That said, it doesn't mean either party have to cheat to get that 'freshness'. You should pay attention to communication and try and accommodate mutual sexual preferences. But you just have to be realistic that after marriage, the focus is to become a family with each other and possible to raise some kids if you are up for it, there are legal and moral obligations that comes with your vows. You are there to take care of each other when both of you grow old and weak, and to make hard decisions that concerns the wellbeing of your family.

If your focus in a marriage is still 80% sex 20% family, your marriage will probably not last. That percentage should reverse.

[whisky21]

Originally Posted by LuSiWen

Hi people,

I am new to Sammyboy and recently got married. I'm interested in understanding what men desire when it comes to matters in the bedroom. I am eager to hear your genuine opinions and insights. Please feel free to share your thoughts.

my personal preference is teasing and i like short skirts.