Need help please...

DepressedGirl · #1 10-07-2015, 07:00 AM

Dear brothers and sisters,

I need all of your advice...

I am currently attached to a guy who is very much into blow job. Everyday he want it at least once or twice.
Initially I can make him cum... But after a few times, he got quite fed up that he is not able to cum... He told me that I should visit some pornsite to learn about bj... Thus I had visited some and pick up some more techniques. However, I am still not able to make him cum... In the end it ended up one being fed up not able to come and I become really depressed. I cried ample times asking myself why I am so stupid and useless. My skills on all my previous one was good and it makes them cum pretty fast and make them really satisfied. However, when it comes to him everything changes. I become like a novice to this.. and it is affecting very badly on our relationship as it becomes very unhappy...

Can anyone please advice me on this?

mummyboy2 · #2 10-07-2015, 07:28 AM

Tongue action is essential to a good blow job. Maybe you should ask him about how you should do it. Etc, position.

Big Sexy · #3 10-07-2015, 07:29 AM

Here is my opinion, dont be depressed. the fault isnt with you, there is nothing wrong with you if you could make all your other guys cum.
i am telling you oral sex is disgusting and illegal unless it is used as a form of foreplay.
A relationship should not be build on sex alone.
My advice for you is to get yourself a new guy.

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Originally Posted by DepressedGirl

Dear brothers and sisters,

I need all of your advice...

I am currently attached to a guy who is very much into blow job. Everyday he want it at least once or twice.
Initially I can make him cum... But after a few times, he got quite fed up that he is not able to cum... He told me that I should visit some pornsite to learn about bj... Thus I had visited some and pick up some more techniques. However, I am still not able to make him cum... In the end it ended up one being fed up not able to come and I become really depressed. I cried ample times asking myself why I am so stupid and useless. My skills on all my previous one was good and it makes them cum pretty fast and make them really satisfied. However, when it comes to him everything changes. I become like a novice to this.. and it is affecting very badly on our relationship as it becomes very unhappy...

Can anyone please advice me on this?

watssupp · #4 10-07-2015, 07:40 AM

Next time just use a vacuum cleaner to suck till he cum

Lizzert · #5 10-07-2015, 07:41 AM

surprise him and suddenly bite his lancheow hard..guarantee he will cum or at least stop complaining anymore

acidicavex · #6 10-07-2015, 08:58 AM

My opinion is this why are you depress it sound like a sign for you to move on with another one whom will appreciate your BJ effort....

Either you BF screw too much or he is bore of u already.

If everyone like your case i think many break up and many divorce lah.

You have try if in the past no complaint only your current dick than change the bastard out.

It pretty dumb to be depress just because he cannot cum by BJ.

BiRd13 · #7 10-07-2015, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by watssupp

Next time just use a vacuum cleaner to suck till he cum

Lol. Bro, next time you don't need diy using hand liao. Can try use vacuum cleaner to substitute for blowjob. Can also turn it off after it 'blow' you, then can poke the 'hole' to substitute as fuck also =X

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Originally Posted by Lizzert

surprise him and suddenly bite his lancheow hard..guarantee he will cum or at least stop complaining anymore

That will be 'Ouch' instead of enjoying...

Quote:

Originally Posted by DepressedGirl

Dear brothers and sisters,

I need all of your advice...

I am currently attached to a guy who is very much into blow job. Everyday he want it at least once or twice.
Initially I can make him cum... But after a few times, he got quite fed up that he is not able to cum... He told me that I should visit some pornsite to learn about bj... Thus I had visited some and pick up some more techniques. However, I am still not able to make him cum... In the end it ended up one being fed up not able to come and I become really depressed. I cried ample times asking myself why I am so stupid and useless. My skills on all my previous one was good and it makes them cum pretty fast and make them really satisfied. However, when it comes to him everything changes. I become like a novice to this.. and it is affecting very badly on our relationship as it becomes very unhappy...

Can anyone please advice me on this?

Like what bro mummyboy2 mentioned. You can try ask him how to go about it. And instead of always use mouth, can use other stuff like boobs, or using your pussy to rub against his dick instead. If he only insist on blowjob to cum, you can ditch this guy liao =X

ilikeoldchangke · #8 10-07-2015, 09:12 AM

Ask your BF to find another guy.

Then ask him suck and show you what is a good blowjob.

Best if your BF can suck until the guy cum.

If he cannot, then ask him to watch porn and learn.

Once he mastered it, ask him suck on your finger to demonstrate. Once you feel one time. should be able to make him cum already.

Jokes aside.

You got see people who don't know how to ride bicycle or .......never rode bicycle before ask.....someone to go and learn by watching video then come and tompang him ????

You need a new bf if the foundation of your relationship is base on how good your blowjob skills is.

Option 2.

Ask your boyfriend take his dick go to any MRT station.

put it on the card reader.

After a while , before you realised it......confirm suck you dry dry........

Everyday i got suck so much that end of the month i check my transport cost....my leg go soft.

Same feeling like orgasm.... si bei high one, i kid you not.

Sometimes end up cannot get erection.

bh69sg · #9 10-07-2015, 09:19 AM

Hi Ms,

You may refer to this thread which have more info on your mentioned dilemma

https://sbfsg.fun/showthread.php?t=541988

Quote:

Originally Posted by DepressedGirl

Dear brothers and sisters,

I need all of your advice...

I am currently attached to a guy who is very much into blow job. Everyday he want it at least once or twice.
Initially I can make him cum... But after a few times, he got quite fed up that he is not able to cum... He told me that I should visit some pornsite to learn about bj... Thus I had visited some and pick up some more techniques. However, I am still not able to make him cum... In the end it ended up one being fed up not able to come and I become really depressed. I cried ample times asking myself why I am so stupid and useless. My skills on all my previous one was good and it makes them cum pretty fast and make them really satisfied. However, when it comes to him everything changes. I become like a novice to this.. and it is affecting very badly on our relationship as it becomes very unhappy...

Can anyone please advice me on this?

fictionman · #10 10-07-2015, 09:20 AM

TS...did he able to make u cum?

theupmostone · #11 10-07-2015, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Big Sexy

Here is my opinion, dont be depressed. the fault isnt with you, there is nothing wrong with you if you could make all your other guys cum.
i am telling you oral sex is disgusting and illegal unless it is used as a form of foreplay.
A relationship should not be build on sex alone.
My advice for you is to get yourself a new guy.

It is not illegal, whether or not it is used as a form of foreplay. Please see one of my past posts for the explanation.

altec7 · #12 10-07-2015, 10:11 AM

Hi sis,

I think you guys have gone beyond the exploring stage and therefore the same 'kick' isn't there anymore.

Try varying th environment, pattern etc.
Like why not try it in a car, cinema or staircase.
The thrill will definitely be there

leakypipes · #13 10-07-2015, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Big Sexy

Here is my opinion, dont be depressed. the fault isnt with you, there is nothing wrong with you if you could make all your other guys cum.
i am telling you oral sex is disgusting and illegal unless it is used as a form of foreplay.
A relationship should not be build on sex alone.
My advice for you is to get yourself a new guy.

I support bro bigsexy. This kind of bro is not worth holding onto

PeteTsang69 · #14 10-07-2015, 10:25 AM

its technique ...

search for youtube ..how to blow from a ex-pornstar ...something like that..

basically the stimulus comes from stroking the shaft and not from head alone ...

in the vid ...girl learns to suck & tongue action on head and same time stroke the shaft ...

really works ...

sex is best 2-way ...equal give & take ..

best fit ... high/high drives, low/low drives

imbalance will cause disharmony ...misfit high/low drives

best break up...sooner than later ... or put up with it and suffer

but why do that when have choice ....choose wisely

jellycat · #15 10-07-2015, 10:27 AM

You should never feel lousy about yourself. A man should make you feel confident.

Why don't you ask him "Issit his dick old and spoilt already? Need to go check up a not."

Alternatively, tell him to lick you until you cum.

If he can't, ask him to go watch video and learn

If you don't know how to give a blow job, that's something you can learn.

But in this scenario, it's HIS problem, not yours.