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Originally Posted by Garage1
In my case - i will say its sexless ( once a month and its like u have to beg or ask for it )
Might as well dun lah if not gng to do it nicey etc
I got a question tho
Recently.. i want to or know a PRC PR with a +2 baggage
Shes also recently divorced
I myself got 0 kids
I think shes currently seeing someone
That someone is also a divorcee +1 guy
So my question is - shld i even try? Yeah im sure we all know PRC stigma and and +2 baggage in this scenario
Will love to hear everyone input
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I will advise you not to pursue her bro. In all fairness, someone with your background can get someone better and not someone with a +2. Given that you never had a child yourself, you have zero experience as a step-parent and you will likely be extremely frustrated trying to develop a relationship with 2 kids who seriously do not want you in their lives. To them, you are and forever will be just someone who happens to be fucking their mother. Nothing more. Accept this simple fact, and you will understand why it is best that you should walk away.
Just ask yourself a simple question. Imagine you were still a child, and your parents divorced. Some guy comes along to fuck your mother and try to be a stepfather to you. How do you think you will react? Multiply that by 2 kids, and you have the answer.
Don't be that guy. Just don't.
I write this, from the viewpoint of a divorcee who also has a +2. Both children stay with me. I do not wish for any woman to step into their lives, so I will strictly keep my dalliances outside and do not bring the woman home. When the kids grow up and leave the home on their own, I will reconsider my stance. Growing old alone is very lonely and I fully understand why folks get together "just for companionship"
I dare say that it will be impossible for any woman to form a good relationship with my children. My children will forever view any woman who steps into their lives with nothing but suspicion and hostility. I don't blame them for it. My kids only have one mother, and it's probably best for them to keep it that way no matter what the mum has done while she was married to me.