[JacqueMerlin]

Tips to more advantage on divorce.

1. Let your to be ex wife divorce because she 'wanted to start a new marriage with someone else'. Thus embark on a divorce only because she has found someone new whom she wants to move on to. It will be even better if she's already pregnant with the other man's child. This will shorten her leverage in the divorce due to higher stakes to lose.

2. Be adamant on your claims to assets. With point 1 above in place, she lacks the time and resource to waste on an acrimonious lengthy divorce battle. She will not hold on to the fight as vehemently.

3. Let your to be ex wife find the lawyer. Only the lawyer wins in your divorce. With you making a stand in point 2, she will have to pay more in the divorce procedures. Unless you are talking about millions, it is not worth the effort and resource to fight a divorce battle the money she gets back can't even break even in the short term.

4. Be willing to cut loss. Let go some to avoid maintenance. You can't win a divorce because the WC is very powerful. Try overriding a law casted in stone. The lucky ones that either had point 1 or point 3 in their favour will serve to create the impression that it's a fair game. You only have 1 shot. Miss it and you will be shackled for a long time with the maintenance bills from your ex wife. Remember you can go to jail if you can't pay.

All the best to all who are fighting a divorce.