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Old 27-09-2022, 08:00 PM
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Re: Unable to maintanin erection for penetration

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Originally Posted by skyver86 View Post
I am considering seeking professional help bro. I had tried to stay away from porn for 4 months. It didn't really work. I find that I'm actually using masturbation to gain confidence in myself to be able to have a go with my wife. Haiz.

When you are masturbating, what are you masturbating to? Are you masturbating to any fetish?

I am asking this is because if you masturbate to a fetish, you are training your brain to only get arousal from that fetish and so during vanilla sex without the fetish, you will not be able to get enough arousal to maintain your erection.

If this is the case, then you need to train your brain to get use to vanilla sex again. For example, if you have the urge to masturbate, then masturbate using a photo of your wife.

I found this reddit post useful : https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comment...made_sex_with/
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