[sgjoey]

An important factor for young adults not to overlook - PEOPLE CHANGE.

As time passes, as kids arrive, as new circumstances arise, your once ideal, totally sexually compatible partner may also change. That's quite natural, and needs to be thoroughly understood. If you can't accept this, just don't marry because unlike fairy tales, there are few happy endings (except in massage parlors...LOL).

Be grateful you are in Singapore, where outsourcing is not too much of a hassle (if you can afford it).