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Enforced monogamy is not love. A lot of people have been brought up on Disney tales of meeting one’s true love, or romantic movies of undying loyalty. In the real world a great deal of Princes behave like Prince Andrew, sleeping around with their power & money. Prince Charles had the beautiful Diana & he cheated on her with Camilla who is not as good looking. Diana also cheated on Charles with Hewitt, Dodi & etc. Love is emotional and it can change or transfer for many people. Sometimes a thing/person you dislike initially can create sparks and later you fall in love. Similarly some things / person you like initially can reveal themselves and cause you to fall out of love. Lust is in both man & woman, men being more problem solving and go getting take action on their lust more. If men feel a lust for a attractive woman ; there a likelihood he’ll try to score. You are entitled to your terms , just be clear to your future partner monogamy is what you need. If you ask me why he left: perhaps consider if you display certain comulsive obsessive behaviors?