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Originally Posted by sbwow
Main issue is John made his gf his everything subconsciously without realizing it. This event can happen to anyone when one is over-reliant on a significant someone for feelings, care or anything. John was suffering from depression at that time as he could not get out of a mental loop. Once anyone develops a mental loop, he has to remind himself that he can't do anything about it and look for alternatives or simply drop that matter instead.
To overcome this issue:
First - Reflect on what can be done next since event has already happened.
Second - Talk to the "right" person for alternatives or suggestions to overcome their inner thoughts. There will always be someone smarter than anyone. HAHAHA.
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i did reflect these past couple of months. I am started to try to open up the idea of meeting someone new dating etc etc. maybe subconsciously i still have the wall i guess? past 2 weeks met 2 new girls at different occassions, got their contact, but not sure what to do next. still feel not so interested.
guess i need to move on to step 2 and need a wiser person to help me break down this wall ? haha