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What is Fellatio and how is it done?

Oral sex for men is called fellatio. There are few tips to fellatio that can be given other than lots of practice and finding out what feels good to each other. The lips and the tongue are the major sources of stimulation and can be used in many ways to make your partner feel good.

Most men find having their penis sucked, licked and kissed intensely exciting. Specific skills, techniques, and positions are not as important as your frame of mind and harmony with yourself and your surroundings.

Occasionally men are worried they may be bitten. If the partner opens his/her mouth as wide as possible, closes his/her lips but not his/her teeth over the penis, there should be no problem with biting. Using all the muscles in the lips and tongue will mean that the teeth should not come into contact with the penis at all.

The best way is to become familiar with the activity in an easy, relaxed way and add on from there. Remember, the main thing is to have a good time.

Can you Choke Doing Fellatio?

Some women find that they start to gag or choke during fellatio. Get in a position where you are more in control so this can be avoided.

What are some Techniques?

The male genitals are highly sensitive to pain so be very gentle.

* Try starting with kissing your partner's face and mouth gradually proceeding to his genitals

* To stimulate the penis with your lips and tongue lick all along the shaft, exploring all its shape, thickness, soft skin

Explore from the:

* textured crown on top with its meatus or opening

* frenum or frenulum, the sensitive place where the glans joins the shaft on the underside, the string-like portion coming down from the head to the ring of skin, called the corona

* foreskin (if uncircumcised)

* scrotum (testicles) with your lips and tongue tip

You can provide the highest degree of sensation to yourself and your partner by kneeling between his legs and approaching his penis from the bottom rather than from the side or the top.

One of the simplest and nicest actions is to move your mouth up and down on his penis. This is called sliding.

* Take the head of the penis in your mouth and suck it, tickling it at the same time with your tongue

* Move your lips up and down the shaft, sucking and pressing with your lips and tongue

* Slide slow or fast taking as much penis into your mouth as you like

* Slide down as far as you can drawing his penis out slowly while sucking on it

Another method is to:

* Lick upwards from the testicles to the top of the penis, like a lollipop

* To heighten his orgasm, place your thumb at the very base of the penis blocking the tube through which the semen spurts so the the semen cannot escape

* At the same time suck vigorously on the head of his penis, so that your partner's ejaculation of semen will last much longer and be very intense

Another method as you are giving fellatio is:

* To begin a slow playful search around his bottom, a particularly sensitive area

* This will enhance the sensations that your mouth and tongue and throat are giving his penis to feel a finger playing with his bottom

* As your partner relaxes and allows you access, gently insert your gloved finger into his anus

* You will be at the area of the prostate gland when your finger is inside completely, so massage this gland with your finger to produce delightful sensations for your partner

* A mini-vibrator may be used instead