[blur boy]

Bro gent, sorry to hear that you going through this problem...

but from the way that you have posted, i guess that your wife is very conservative towards sex....and that is why she is rejecting the couselling part as well.....

i do understand your frustration but i guess you have to be patient and try to educate her calmly and patiently....and at the sametime, try to entice her into it...especially on the knowledge part.

Maybe she is afraid that she might get pregnant if you guys make out, i guess that that is her concern and she is worry that she might not be able to cope it. and finally, explain to her that you shall do preventive measures and not ejaculate into her loh....

Just my opinion............