Thinking of cheating...help :(
 

I've had some experiences with FLs before; I'm currently in an LDR but tempted to cheat on her even though I'm actually going over to see her in a few days :( Does anyone have any advice/been in a similar situation before? How do you deal with it and live with yourself?

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How do you know she not being bonked by other men in Tinder or Bumble?

Think women are still naive & innocent ah?

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very common... i also cheat before. what i experienced ah, karma lor... you want to cheat be ready to accept consequences. if she cheat u also must accept can break up can patch up up to you but dont play the saint lor. so how to deal with it or live with myself, whatever comes as a consequence is my karma.

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LDR and cheat. no issues
is this LDR serious?
If yes, just bear in mind not to go into true feelings while cheating

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Just do it since she's hundred of miles away,
she's probably doing the same , dont be naive.
Cheating / ONS is part of LDR

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Its a moral issue you have to deal with. If you think sex is just sex, then you won't feel guilty about having to release with FLs, even before meeting your LDR.

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i like your thinking lol

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i also in ldr want to cheat just cheat lor.

i am a 3rd wheel in other people relationship and broken up a nice relationship also.

already know the girl got bf that is very good to her but i just want to win so i pursue. got her. then covid came she cannot let go the ex bf went back to the ex bf. they happy for 2 years plus i go and poke again and make them break up and now she together with me but ldr. i also cheat.

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Whats LDR ?

Lonely Dick Relationship ?

:D

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long distance relationship very hard to maintain , lonely dick relationship also very stressful lol

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because of the long distance, thus the lonely dick lol

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i hooked up with 2 thai ladies from tinder. dont need to believe the "no fwb no ons" bullshit in their profile. bring them out for drinks had a good time also end up in my room on first day of meeting.

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Just fuck a prostitute, it's okay one. It's not really cheating imo. But if you go date another girl and put feelings into it then i would consider that cheating and advice you not to unless you're ready to end your current relationship

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i agree with the feelings part. once got feelings, can prepare relationship go down the drain unless effort and decision made to work things out with partner.

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yup i tio kc before and ruin my marriage :(

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Indeed, even the next door girls look innocent on the surface but also want you to bonk them if they see you as a man of value.

Pretend only mah cos which girl will openly declare they r sluts.

Thai culture is chill like that, if u can tolerate your girl having other bfs then good for you. Cos the Thai girls also know their guys will visit soapy and bars.

If you ask me thats real gender equality haha.

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I actually agree with this. I have thai female friends, they actually advised me before. Thai girls generally following "feelings" without thinking rationally. So easy for them to cheat also, unless you as their boyfriend able to keep them feeling in love with you.

My ex gf got bored of me and found another guy. I have to admit this one, I took the relationship for granted and did not work on keeping the spark. I just focused on my work and neglected her. So she left for another guy that made her feel loved and wanted.

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Teach me senpai! :D

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if you cheat because you need sex, then go ahead. But nothing more than sex.

If you cheat and she doesn't find out = no cheating :)

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Its called 'Outsourcing' .. lol

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hahaha do anything but dont get caught

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i am guilty of cheating , i also do paid FLs

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now i single so not cheating. see how it goes if no single i still want to cheat or not

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Me too. Whenever she makes me angry i will tend to visit MLs..how to stop this vicious cycle?

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convert the anger into make up sex everytime.

Yea did that.. bt only works to a certain extend 🤣

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get interesting with the sex i guess ? as a strong believer that sex is important in a relationship, i still fall into the temptation of going to paid FLs.

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i see already. my thai friend introduced 2 friends, both got husbands but still damn flirty and ask for my line contact.

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at the beginning of the relationship probably not la after a long time maybe will

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yea maybe relationship just start i feel refreshed and happy after awhile become boring who knows