lost hope in love...
 

haven been posting for quite some time...my previous thread is dead...so i starting one dat tells my silly story....

if u guys have read my thread before...(troubled mind)...tis is part 3...

finally she is married...initially...i can't accept the fact dat lies is wat she is good at....

why do i still hope dat she will come back to me one day....?
me and her very complicated...letting go is not as easy as i think...
i want to let go....but whenever my phone rings...its her...i will surely pick up her call...

i dunno whether i reali tio "gong tao" anot...
can't control wat i wan to do...always telling myself she not the one for me...till now...sometimes i still think abt her...

wat is our relatioship now....?frenz i guess...we dun quarrel as much like b4...we dun sms each other daily...sometimes not a call from her for weeks...

do i still love her...?not as much i guess....
its funny....i still miss her....mayb knowing her heart dun belong to me anymore...i dunno when she will leave me....hope i can take the impact when she reali does...:(

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Whatever she good at, there always another girl better!

Go out and socialise, you will meet better people, 40% of the time you date you find better girls than her. So everytime you meet another girl, you become 5% stronger till you over come your pain period.

You need to sever the emotional connection to thoughts of her. Spend time doing things you enjoyed, so you calmed down enough to logically see that she was not worth the trouble.

My 2@ cents worth of remedy is easy - By never contacting her, pursuing other women, and letting time separate the emotion from the memory. :cool:

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Serves you right for messing around with WHORES. :rolleyes:

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there is always a better girl out there...don't let your emotional state/heart fark you upside down.

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TS..wake up. SHe just want you to be her back up. IF a girl really loves you, she sure care about your feeling. I will suggest you stay away from her. She already captured your weak point. When ever she needs ur help , she will come to you again.

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thanks bro don juan..by never contacting her seems lik a difficult task for me....i'm not dat strong in mind to actually cut off all emotion with her...

guess i still need more time or mayb wait till she does something dat makes me want to give up totally on her...

i reali hope she is happy with her life...for me...i think soon it will be time for me to move on....i hope...

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Bro, wise said ... words of wisdom ;) and person with full of experience - haha i guessed :)

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I am in the same situation as u r...I still miss my ex...I long to go back to the times when we are together...but I guess that can only happens in my dream...now she even block me on her facebook...I think is time to move on...

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mayb its reali time to move on...
memories is enough to make me remember her for life....
seeing her in dreams is like a consolation prize for me...:(

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:D. Yah.. I kana before. Worst than TS case.

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Ya .... somehow expected.

So now just see how TS react and take how much more time to get over

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ts bro, don't abandon the entire forest just for one tree.

ps, just my 2 cent worth =)

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Bro, its better to devote your time elsewhere now and make yourself busy. You will get over her after a few months and perhaps get to know a even better lady. :)

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The only "gong tao" is in your own tao (head and mind). Since it was a complicated relationship, just work hard to work on moving on...It's not gonna to be easy but you got to start lifting your leg 1-feet at a time slowly away from it all....Afterall, we all know trying to forget a person is difficult but it is not impossible. Cheers ;)

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TS, y my frens be bar tender happy happy sian mei mei, u also bar tender ( part time ) then suffering? make full use of ur job scope leh :p