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adidas26
29-11-2002, 12:44 AM
Help brothers!
My gf and I have been together for 4 months now and we have regular sex sessions. but recently i find that my dick is getting smaller and smaller while having sex. Meaning erection liao rite, i put in, rub rub a while then can feel it starts to soften and get looser! Once it happens but i still manage to come , but it became so soft that the condom slip out into her vagina. On other occasions my dick will jus popped out of the vagina without cumming and my sex session will end there, which is very frustrating! imagine fucking halfway and u suddenly have to stop cos soft liao! Sometimes even when we petting its quite hard but when i wan put it into the hole it softens till cant even put in! oh my! Is dat impotent? Sometimes stop to put condom on also lose the erection. The most sian thing is fucking halfway rite, at first go in quite hard so my gf quite siok, but after a while soft liao but still in her vagina lah but can feel she not shiok liao cos moan little now. Cannot satissfy her fuck... Brothers plesase helppp kae??

newbie88
29-11-2002, 01:17 AM
omg tats scary, one of my bros told me...as long as u can cum/u can harden dick , its not impotence.......

but if u soft dick and cannot cum, u might be on ur way to impotence........but no worry u can try viagra......

Tomb
29-11-2002, 01:38 AM
better go see a doctor quick..
at least u will know what happen to ur penis..
solve the problem first rather than waiting ...

SexDevil
29-11-2002, 02:37 PM
aiyah tink u must be sian of bonking yr gf liao lah...feel no kick bonking the same gal everytime mah.....go get a new gal n bonk n then see got same prb or not....

lightweaver
29-11-2002, 05:25 PM
U sound young so i hope u r...anyway, it helps if u r fit and run regularly lor. Maybe foreplay fr ur gf?

KIAA
29-11-2002, 06:08 PM
dun noe whether works a not? try eating more prawns (seafood)to increase your sex urge but not to do it straight away, make sure you really feel hard and need to release. For me, it works.

Sexatronic
30-11-2002, 12:17 PM
Bro, ur problem sound serious leh.

But hv u heard of this term : Muscle & Sex

Go to the gym, work out 3 times a week and c how.

limkopi
01-12-2002, 09:29 PM
You must be bonking her everyday. That is why. It is not a physical problem but a mental problem.

Just need to get very excited and in the mood then your little brother will not let you down. I too have the same problem but some experts told me "You are under a lot of stress from your work". So I took a week off and rested in a resort at Malaysia. Well it work wonders after the rest.

axedia
01-12-2002, 10:42 PM
Originally posted by adidas26
Help brothers!
My gf and I have been together for 4 months now and we have regular sex sessions. but recently i find that my dick is getting smaller and smaller while having sex. Meaning erection liao rite, i put in, rub rub a while then can feel it starts to soften and get looser! Once it happens but i still manage to come , but it became so soft that the condom slip out into her vagina. On other occasions my dick will jus popped out of the vagina without cumming and my sex session will end there, which is very frustrating! imagine fucking halfway and u suddenly have to stop cos soft liao! Sometimes even when we petting its quite hard but when i wan put it into the hole it softens till cant even put in! oh my! Is dat impotent? Sometimes stop to put condom on also lose the erection. The most sian thing is fucking halfway rite, at first go in quite hard so my gf quite siok, but after a while soft liao but still in her vagina lah but can feel she not shiok liao cos moan little now. Cannot satissfy her fuck... Brothers plesase helppp kae??

Bro Adidas, you must have feel bored bonking your gf if not how can that happen. foreplay,foreplay!!! its very important.tell your gf to give you a "LIFT". haha!!

maybe seafood can help you! cos i heard seafood contain some substances that could help you.

rondejonjon
06-12-2002, 01:27 AM
try taking a break from sex for awhile. I think u may be doing it anxiously or more accurately you are anxious while bonking your gf. You may be doing it to please her rather than to enjoy it yourself. It's a mental thing Maybe it's becoming routine for you so just take a break. If your gf inisists on having sex frequently good luck to you! I think variety works lah in this case: where u bonk her and timing contribute to enjoyment or lack of enjoyment. Try different places. Try role playing oso. For example, u massage her or vice versa:D

joker85
06-12-2002, 07:05 PM
wa i think u better go for a check up brother

acey
09-12-2002, 10:10 PM
Hi there,
I have a similar problem...when my gf gives me a bj, my penis gets hard easily...however, when I take it out of her mouth and try to penetrate her, it becomes soft soon...sigh...could not make it erect with stroking either...
however, I could maintain the erection sufficiently enough for penetration when I wake up in the middle of the night or in the morning. Probably because I am very much rested.
This means that I have to spend the night with her, which is not possible most of the time...
I exercise often (jog about 10 km per week) and always get a strong silver for my IPPT. So a lack of physical fitness is not the problem.
Thinking of trying out herbs like "Horny Goat Extract" and "Tongkat Ali"....saw the former at GNC. Still looking for the latter (someone told me it can be purchased at Joo Chiat Place).
Why dont you try out these herbs and let us know if it helps.

lovesite
13-12-2002, 09:16 PM
there was a massage auntie at roman spa told me before that cannot do bj too often cos you will get addicted and the bad thing is you used to coming thru bj then you cannot come while fucking anymore, need bj to cum. try to abstain from bj awhile, the main thing is to keep changing then sex will be fresh and better.

KentCave
14-12-2002, 01:59 AM
the routine-syndrome

most married couples has it at one time or another

just need another break

go have some affair or such hehe

lucky its u who is bored, not the other party

go go eye-foreplay at GL GT, then steam and go home bonk ur partner

just never admit (even under the worst torture!) that you so horny from drooling at other chio bus

slicky eel,
Sir Kent

Hooters666
15-12-2002, 06:40 PM
ITs confimed a mental thing. I used to have this problem but once you take it easy and relax your mind your hormones will come raging through. Also try not to cum by getting your gf do a BJ for you. Its true that this will affect your ability to cum during intercourse. You may not have realise this but tens years down the line when you want to be a father you will know why. Girls do not ovulate in their mouths if you can pardon my description.

My 2 cents of help.

acey
15-12-2002, 09:21 PM
THanks for the advice. My gf likes me to cum in her mouth and we do that quite often. Maybe this explains why I have difficultly maintaining erection when trying to penetrate her.



Originally posted by Hooters666
ITs confimed a mental thing. I used to have this problem but once you take it easy and relax your mind your hormones will come raging through. Also try not to cum by getting your gf do a BJ for you. Its true that this will affect your ability to cum during intercourse. You may not have realise this but tens years down the line when you want to be a father you will know why. Girls do not ovulate in their mouths if you can pardon my description.

My 2 cents of help.

soonchuan
23-12-2002, 12:51 AM
Maybe you have been having too much sex on your girl liao which she no longer excite u.Or u r already sian of her liao.
Try to get her to wear some sexy cloth to arouse u lor.

babycheong
27-12-2002, 06:04 AM
bro adidas26........too much sex can be a cause as well(everyday)...juz rest a while and you should be ok.........if still not, then it's about time u see a doctor.........

juz 2 cents worth of what I think......good luck!!

rondejonjon
31-12-2002, 01:32 PM
I have been away from the computer for quite awhile. I wonder if u still have the same problem of not being able to cum or still have erectile dysfuction.
I strongly believe that your problem is a pschological one and that you are too anxious while bonking your gf. I'm no expert in sexology lol but I think foreplay is an important part of sex. After all one doesn't enjoy the orange without peeling it first right;)

Psychology aside, I happen to know this 100% natural no side effect products from the USA, which might help u.What it does is to strengthen the muscles of your genitals. In other words it's supposed to help u cum!

I have tried it before even though I dont need it lol! And when I use it wa liao damn shiok boy! Shoot out a lot!

If u r interested please reply!

Rooney
13-01-2003, 07:20 PM
Originally posted by rondejonjon
I have been away from the computer for quite awhile. I wonder if u still have the same problem of not being able to cum or still have erectile dysfuction.
I strongly believe that your problem is a pschological one and that you are too anxious while bonking your gf. I'm no expert in sexology lol but I think foreplay is an important part of sex. After all one doesn't enjoy the orange without peeling it first right;)

Psychology aside, I happen to know this 100% natural no side effect products from the USA, which might help u.What it does is to strengthen the muscles of your genitals. In other words it's supposed to help u cum!

I have tried it before even though I dont need it lol! And when I use it wa liao damn shiok boy! Shoot out a lot!

If u r interested please reply!

im interested bro, im also having this bj problem. Im prefer bj to cum nowadays damn.....now fj i cant enjoy .

anal?
16-01-2003, 09:19 PM
bro, i think your problem is either you are too tired (from work, NS or watever) or you two are f**king too frequently and it becomes a routine rather than a enjoyable experience. Go try something new, like teasing each other wif sex toys, playing strip poker etc as a built up and only start touching each other when one of you really buay tahan liao, then have lotsa foreplay b4 sex
Alternatively, u can spice up ur lovemaking with a little role playing. try tying her up while she struggles, blindfolding her, tearing off her panties and using it to gag her, then play wif her tied up body b4 fucking her etc, jus use a bit of imagination to spice up ur love life. Works wonders i can guarantee u.

If the above does not work, boy, are u in deep shit.

(WARNING : Do not try those watevers u see on jap or ang mor pornos. They are the pros, so whoever u are, watever u do, please 'Don't try this at home'. Or at least have ur partners consent and play safe. Happy Lunar New Year Bonks, Everyone!)

acey
22-01-2003, 09:34 PM
Hi Anal,

Managed to screw my gf three times recently...but that was in the morning after a night's rest (we checked into a hotel for a rendenvous). But still have difficulty maintaining erection at night. And no I dont screw very often. So I suppose its due to tiredness from work (but it happens even when my workload/stressload is not heavy during the day).

I am on horny goat weed and tongkat ali right now. Hope it will improve things further, enabling me to screw not just in the morning but at night as well.

cheers



Originally posted by anal?
bro, i think your problem is either you are too tired (from work, NS or watever) or you two are f**king too frequently and it becomes a routine rather than a enjoyable experience. Go try something new, like teasing each other wif sex toys, playing strip poker etc as a built up and only start touching each other when one of you really buay tahan liao, then have lotsa foreplay b4 sex
Alternatively, u can spice up ur lovemaking with a little role playing. try tying her up while she struggles, blindfolding her, tearing off her panties and using it to gag her, then play wif her tied up body b4 fucking her etc, jus use a bit of imagination to spice up ur love life. Works wonders i can guarantee u.

If the above does not work, boy, are u in deep shit.

(WARNING : Do not try those watevers u see on jap or ang mor pornos. They are the pros, so whoever u are, watever u do, please 'Don't try this at home'. Or at least have ur partners consent and play safe. Happy Lunar New Year Bonks, Everyone!)

anal?
23-01-2003, 07:19 PM
mmmmmmm................not everyone functions the same way. Wat works for one might not work for another. When i first started having sex regularly, there were times where i struggled to find rythmn too. So did my gf. I think sex is something more than just stripping off and humping the gal. Take time to explore wat really turns you on and gets both of you in the mood.

And you sound like a young working adult (just like me) so I dun see a need for you to be using, or rather relying on Tongkat Ali or Horny Goat or watever to bring u sexual fulfillment. Hey man! Believe in urself eh sai bo? have u had other sexual experience b4 ur current gf? if yes, might be due to inexperience and anxiety.

If you can wake up with a 'morning glory' that says that u cannot be impotent. Like i said, explore urself and ur gf, i'm sure you can find something satisfying for both of you in a short time.

Alternatively, I can teach ur gf how to satisfy you. Fee will depend on the no. of lessons you book. 1st 5 sessions free if you book b4 CNY. 30 days Money Back Guarantee. 12 mths interests free instalment if you use POSB Mastercard.

acey
02-02-2003, 12:55 AM
Hi there,

>ruggled to find rythmn too. So did my gf. I think sex is >something more than just stripping off and humping the gal.

Cant agree more. Which is why I have difficulty appreciating how people can screw a pros so easily (especially China pros who do not do anything but just lie like a dead body).

Tried commercial sex twice but just could not get and maintain erection easily. Gave up liao !!