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Blur
01-01-2002, 11:12 PM
my gf and i wants to have sex..but she is afraid of getting pregnant.
so i decided dat i can use a condom.
but is it safe enough?
hence she is not convince and wun let me enter her Vagina.
so i tried to go in from the back..
but it seems like u may also get pregnant from anus sex???
is it true?

can anyone help ???
=((

maximus74
02-01-2002, 02:24 AM
Originally posted by Blur
my gf and i wants to have sex..but she is afraid of getting pregnant.
so i decided dat i can use a condom.
but is it safe enough?
hence she is not convince and wun let me enter her Vagina.
so i tried to go in from the back..
but it seems like u may also get pregnant from anus sex???
is it true?

can anyone help ???
=((

send your gf to me, i will take care of your problem.

Ah Dez
02-01-2002, 03:02 AM
Originally posted by Blur
my gf and i wants to have sex..but she is afraid of getting pregnant.
so i decided dat i can use a condom.
but is it safe enough?
hence she is not convince and wun let me enter her Vagina.
so i tried to go in from the back..
but it seems like u may also get pregnant from anus sex???
is it true?

can anyone help ???


Tell u wat, nothing is comfrim. condom is not a rubber, not titaninum. If u so scared, then dont do, that is the bottomline

Rainman
02-01-2002, 12:44 PM
First u mst tell us your age before we could give free advise.

Anyway, never heard that Anal go in can get pregnant.

There is many other way to have sex without entering. Want to know more??? Ask Clinton??


Originally posted by Blur
my gf and i wants to have sex..but she is afraid of getting pregnant.
so i decided dat i can use a condom.
but is it safe enough?
hence she is not convince and wun let me enter her Vagina.
so i tried to go in from the back..
but it seems like u may also get pregnant from anus sex???
is it true?

can anyone help ???
=((

MG69
02-01-2002, 03:57 PM
so scared jut stay with kissing and hold hands lor.....

CheongKingKong
03-01-2002, 11:58 AM
Originally posted by Blur
my gf and i wants to have sex..but she is afraid of getting pregnant.
so i decided dat i can use a condom.
but is it safe enough?
hence she is not convince and wun let me enter her Vagina.
so i tried to go in from the back..
but it seems like u may also get pregnant from anus sex???
is it true?

can anyone help ???
=((
Haiz, as the brudders here had mentioned, it's not 100% safe, even the box said so. Don't you read! Anyway, you should be consent whether is your gf underage, else you will be in Deep shit, like your little didi always is. BTW, get yourself a book on sex education, it gives you a lot of information on prevention of prenancy.
You lucky ass hole, uncle me also never try anal sex before!
:D

Ah Dez
04-01-2002, 03:18 PM
Originally posted by CheongKingKong

Haiz, as the brudders here had mentioned, it's not 100% safe, even the box said so. Don't you read! Anyway, you should be consent whether is your gf underage, else you will be in Deep shit, like your little didi always is. BTW, get yourself a book on sex education, it gives you a lot of information on prevention of prenancy.
You lucky ass hole, uncle me also never try anal sex before!
:D

Hum, can go to the national library n read up the books avaliable.
will be quite useful.
never heard of a 100% good method.

Fury_Cunt
05-01-2002, 02:04 AM
When i first had sex with my bf few yrs back, i was kinda afraid too... but well.. since then, i went on pills... there are some side effects on taking pills too... some may put on weight, some may loose... well aniwae.. i think pill is da best!
consult a doc...

Rainman
05-01-2002, 09:54 PM
So what about the pill called " the morning after" or somthing like that. Heard it is good and work even 2 days after sex.

Where to get this?? Can anyone advise.

Fury_Cunt
06-01-2002, 10:31 AM
i consult my own gynae! dun think can get else where beside clinics:)

MaxC2000
07-01-2002, 09:59 PM
Originally posted by Rainman
So what about the pill called " the morning after" or somthing like that. Heard it is good and work even 2 days after sex.

Where to get this?? Can anyone advise.

It can work up to 72 hours after sex, but the effectiveness declines the longer you wait. AFAIK, effectiveness is only about 75% or less, so it is not very reliable. Also the girl may experience nausea and stuff after taking it, and so may not be grateful to you. I've had 2 girls take it on the rare occassions that the condom broke and the one time, we had no condom but was too horny to stop.

CheongKingKong
08-01-2002, 11:14 AM
One method I always use is to do it raw with my gf after the 25days(first day being day one of the period), or within three day after the period stops flowing. A piece of warning, do not do this if your gf have irrgular period, else her ovation period may be off, then you will kanna her belly grow big big!
Therefore during these safe period, couple with condom, very safe, but if your gf is underage, very unsafe for you!
:D

Rainman
09-01-2002, 02:20 PM
Not so true loh, my friend.

Few friends of mine kenna during this so called safe period.

The reason according to them is that if the job done during this period is damn GOOD. The steamilation causes premature ovation thus the unforeseen circumstanses.

U believed??



Originally posted by CheongKingKong
One method I always use is to do it raw with my gf after the 25days(first day being day one of the period), or within three day after the period stops flowing. A piece of warning, do not do this if your gf have irrgular period, else her ovation period may be off, then you will kanna her belly grow big big!
Therefore during these safe period, couple with condom, very safe, but if your gf is underage, very unsafe for you!
:D

CheongKingKong
09-01-2002, 02:39 PM
Originally posted by Rainman
Not so true loh, my friend.

Few friends of mine kenna during this so called safe period.

The reason according to them is that if the job done during this period is damn GOOD. The steamilation causes premature ovation thus the unforeseen circumstanses.

U believed??





I believed! As I had read about this somewhere before, it mentioned that there could be a slim chance, but not high lor.
So far I'm lucky(4 to 5 year doing that liao, multiple to about 48 to 60 months), but I make sure I count zhun zhun. One thing I believed is sure is that 2 days before the period come, definitely safe, as during this time, the lady womb is not really to accept a fertiled egg lor. So no womb=no baby.

I think your friend may have mis-count, or mis-use the condom,
got cheated by the gf. No offence.

:D

Rainman
09-01-2002, 02:52 PM
Not GF lah as both are married man loh. Its their wife and the kid was unexpected

It happened on the 1st day after the period and that is why I beleived.

net_idiot
12-01-2002, 03:33 PM
just my two cents worth, pls dun flame me!! :)

when i had sex with my ex, she was afraid like ur gf. it's nothing unusual coz it's afterall their first time. i manage to convince her by saying tat we use multiple methods.

Condom being the first and foremost precaution.

2nd is the rythmn method. Make sure, she is 7 days before or after her period, 'after' being the better choice if ur gf has irregular period. n try to shorten the period to say 3-4 days instead of 7.

lastly, use the withdrawal method. practise it using ur masturbation session. u can try just lying down when u start, n when u r abt to climax, shift urself into a half standing position (this will help u practise ur movement out of her pussy before u shoot) once u r confident tat can hold it for 1-2 sec n continue the climax with ur hand, then u can start trying.

this will reduce her worry coz the methods combined together r quite kiasu, hahahahaha.

anw, after some time having sex, we eliminate each method one by one n the only method left is withdrawal. a lot of bruthers here will agree tat raw sex is so much better than condom.

enjoy!!!!!

deedlit48
26-01-2002, 10:35 PM
hmm.. I think 7 days after period is a little risky..

For more info on a girls Monthly Cycle.. pls read this website.. very informative :).. even has a diagram to explain..

http://www.billings-centre.ab.ca/bc_100.htm

Cheers..

valiantj
30-08-2002, 05:02 AM
well guys tis is one which i hav tried but can get really messy and disgusting so dun flame me for it.

my gf is realli horny espcially during her period (when she is still flowing red, if any gals here do u realli feel hornier than normal during pms?) and on that day she realli want but i was reluctant cos of the blood but she realli go all the way to tease and foreplay following wat porn movies do at the same time playing it and showing me UNTIL CANNOT TAHAN...so i was defeated and went in raw without rubber and cum inside her. i can tell u its really messy wif all the blood on u not metion the bedsheet stain (and its still there) but can tell u tats the first and many session of me cumming in my gf pussy and its real great compare to pulling out to cum no break in the rhytem especially when both person are cumming together, real great sex but u hav to kind of get over the blood thing or wat ever superstitous overall its realli nothin but great sex, no rubber, cum inside each other and together except being messy. my 2 cents worth. MOST IMPORTANT its safe the first time i cum in her was 1 yr ago and her tummy is still the same.

PrinceD@rkness
31-08-2002, 06:10 PM
Originally posted by Blur
my gf and i wants to have sex..but she is afraid of getting pregnant.
so i decided dat i can use a condom.
but is it safe enough?
hence she is not convince and wun let me enter her Vagina.
so i tried to go in from the back..
but it seems like u may also get pregnant from anus sex???
is it true?

can anyone help ???
=((


u will not get pregnant from anal sex, only shit from anal:D

Youngsing77
01-09-2002, 03:58 AM
going via anal? sure or not? did you watch too much Blue flim? forgive me please, as I never (never) manage to go in there for 7 years of my sex life.

however, i am very sure the gal's stomach will not swell no matter how high your sperm count is.

cucumber
05-09-2002, 03:42 AM
the reason why people say u can get preg from anal sex is cos the vagina is very close to the anus. And when you ejaculate, u may accidentaly get sperm splash and smear onto her chee bye. And sperm can swim from the outside of the vagina to the inside

condoms are design for vagina penetration, not anal penetration so using it for anal sex may well break it. Yes condoms are not 100% protection from AIDs. The HIV virus are much smaller than the pores of the condom.

Fuck smart fuck safe

bradpitt968
09-09-2002, 03:05 PM
Another very good method is call "Depo provera".... something like that.. it's injection based.... last about 3mths.... will cause some hormones changes during this time.... so better consult doctor... so once u take a jap..... u'll be able to have sex normally for 3mths... shooting anywhere u want.... that's what i've heard.... so check it out with the doctor....

newlife
10-09-2002, 06:14 PM
Originally posted by PrinceD@rkness



u will not get pregnant from anal sex, only shit from anal


She will not get pregnant but the shit will get pregnant..........:D

poorman4sex
10-09-2002, 08:34 PM
haven't start to fuck pussy want to fuck backside liao ?? sure or not ??

cheechee
15-09-2002, 06:28 PM
Wah envy ler.. First time then try anal liao...
I had sex for 2 yrs with my gal liao and my didi havent even explored this forbidden land. Lucky you.

Anyway, my suggestion is that you ask her whether her period for the past 6 mths were accurate or not. If quite ok, then u can try the kiasi method mentioned by net_idiot above.

Within 3-4days after her period + condom then she will be quite ok with it.

My wild guess is after a few mths of "real" thing, u two will tend to forget the condom part+outer ejaculation and only try real fuck within 3-4 days after her period.. Hehehehe....

U wun resist the sensation of the real fuck.

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Btw, just wondering, guys==== how old were you when u had ur first sex?

I did it @ 20 yrs old, a bit late rite? but i am proud coz it was first for me and also my gf... ;)

PrinceD@rkness
17-09-2002, 04:16 AM
Originally posted by cheechee
Wah envy ler.. First time then try anal liao...
I had sex for 2 yrs with my gal liao and my didi havent even explored this forbidden land. Lucky you.

Anyway, my suggestion is that you ask her whether her period for the past 6 mths were accurate or not. If quite ok, then u can try the kiasi method mentioned by net_idiot above.

Within 3-4days after her period + condom then she will be quite ok with it.

My wild guess is after a few mths of "real" thing, u two will tend to forget the condom part+outer ejaculation and only try real fuck within 3-4 days after her period.. Hehehehe....

U wun resist the sensation of the real fuck.

------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Btw, just wondering, guys==== how old were you when u had ur first sex?

I did it @ 20 yrs old, a bit late rite? but i am proud coz it was first for me and also my gf... ;)


i did it when i'm 13++, i'm also proud coz it was first for me n my ex-g/f too....;)

dirtbike08
17-09-2002, 06:05 PM
Originally posted by cheechee
Wah envy ler.. First time then try anal liao...
I had sex for 2 yrs with my gal liao and my didi havent even explored this forbidden land. Lucky you.

Anyway, my suggestion is that you ask her whether her period for the past 6 mths were accurate or not. If quite ok, then u can try the kiasi method mentioned by net_idiot above.

Within 3-4days after her period + condom then she will be quite ok with it.

My wild guess is after a few mths of "real" thing, u two will tend to forget the condom part+outer ejaculation and only try real fuck within 3-4 days after her period.. Hehehehe....

U wun resist the sensation of the real fuck.

------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Btw, just wondering, guys==== how old were you when u had ur first sex?

I did it @ 20 yrs old, a bit late rite? but i am proud coz it was first for me and also my gf... ;)


had it when i was 15......very very proud...cause was my first and also my ex-gf!!!

very proud meh??

kimchi
18-09-2002, 03:04 AM
had it 1st at 15..puppy luv...she later went on 2 bcome model n then tv person.Told my colleague when 1 day saw her on tv but he laughed at me saying he treat me for 5 session at HC if i can just bring an old photo of her.Search 4 old photo n managed 2 find 1 showing we're hugging each other.His face changed n said i'm lucky but wat da fuck,dat time she still not well groom n pretty yet!!!

manson
18-09-2002, 03:05 AM
100% safe method?!?!?! got..... go tie up your sperm ducts lar! get a good urologist.. pay a few thousand bucks.... save you the trouble and embarrassment (if you feel that way lar) when buying condoms... you will never have KIDS forever unless you untie it lar..... and it's surely 100% safe and impossible to concieve... unless she sleeps around lar! plus you can do it RAW all the time!

Youngsing77
18-09-2002, 03:40 PM
Originally posted by kimchi
had it 1st at 15..puppy luv...she later went on 2 bcome model n then tv person.Told my colleague when 1 day saw her on tv but he laughed at me saying he treat me for 5 session at HC if i can just bring an old photo of her.Search 4 old photo n managed 2 find 1 showing we're hugging each other.His face changed n said i'm lucky but wat da fuck,dat time she still not well groom n pretty yet!!!

Post the picture leh... let the community share your happiness leh.

dirtbike08
18-09-2002, 08:05 PM
Originally posted by Youngsing77


Post the picture leh... let the community share your happiness leh.

you mean he post the pic of the gal.....you will be happy also???

dun understand!!!

kimchi
18-09-2002, 11:22 PM
Originally posted by Youngsing77


Post the picture leh... let the community share your happiness leh.
Sorry bro,no pic or mention of name on da net.....not gd 4 her...hope u understand.

hooties
01-10-2002, 03:31 PM
SHIT!! While reading this , my Condom Tear!!!:eek:

pat888
01-10-2002, 05:36 PM
u DIY izzzzit......hahahhhhhhhhhhh:p

etegration
02-10-2002, 01:26 PM
Originally posted by pat888
u DIY izzzzit......hahahhhhhhhhhhh:p

DIY need to wear condom one meh? :confused:

dirtbike08
02-10-2002, 05:39 PM
Originally posted by etegration


DIY need to wear condom one meh? :confused:

why DIY cannot wear condom meh??

Master Bates
02-10-2002, 06:06 PM
singaporean..mah..very kiasi one..
you know how much germs your hands got or not...handle money,wear shoes..carry things,open doors,flush toilet,shake other ppl's hand,dig nose,dig ass...risk of infection or diseases very high..kekeke
:D

lahchi
03-10-2002, 01:50 AM
Originally posted by hooties
SHIT!! While reading this , my Condom Tear!!!:eek:


Dun worry...your hand won't get pregnant...hek...hek:D

onqq
12-10-2002, 02:15 AM
Why worry so much, do BJ OK lor
If you like, do 69, so both can happy happy

dionysusex
22-10-2002, 04:27 AM
wah... never fuck the front already fuck the behind!

First of all, please make sure that your gf is of the legal age. If not baby or not baby you also got BIG problem.

Nothing is 100% safe. If preventing pregnancy (STDs is another matter altogether)is all you want, then please allow me to suggest the following:

Use a condom on your didi and spermicide on her meimei. Also try and get her to go on the pill. That way, if the condom break, you got the spermicide to kill the sperm. WHatever survived the posion will meet with the pill. Still, it's not 100% but I think if you still kenna then really suay until nothing to say liao.

Something to note: Anal sex is not very healthy. Until you conscientiously get your gf to clear her bowels and clean thoroughly, risk of infection from germs (think anal = shit) for both you and her is very high. Plus the anus is not really stretchable and might tear from vigorous thrusting. Don't flame me please. Happened to my ex.

If your gf is still hesitant, suggest CIM. Personally I think the feeling beats anything else. Furthermore, she can be sure of where all your sperm goes --- into her mouth!!!