View Full Version : do u still "ENJOY" hving sex with your wife..
smallLJboy
02-03-2005, 01:44 PM
I notice many man dun really wan to hv sex with the wife anymore after their married.. when they r bf gf stage..they hv sex often..why?
beacuse...
1.. when GF BF stage..only see each other once a week and cannot tahan, must pok each time they meet.
2.. because GF will dress themself up but wife just hack care
3.. GF normally hv better figure then wife (they put on weight after married)
4.. no moood, cos everyay see it also sian
5.. quarelle.. hence sex mood also drop (will u still hv sex with her if u r angry)
6.. they start to nag alot..and hence sex drive toward her also drop
this is all I can think of.. so any married man here.. pls come in can ppost your exp.. and you do to your wife in order to bring the sex life back.. or you also heck care and go pok other younger chicks..
coolpix2075
02-03-2005, 02:01 PM
i do agreed tat the drive to have sex will drop but for myself i still have frequent sex wif my wife..... when really need varieties then i will cheong HC once in a while....
I thk after married is the communication tat is important, once the understanding is there the will to have sex will be there..... juz my 2 cents worth of opinion.
thaivisitor
02-03-2005, 02:08 PM
I notice many man dun really wan to hv sex with the wife anymore after their married.. when they r bf gf stage..they hv sex often..why?
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Bro, may I just ask some questions first hor...
How many men you notice that dun really want to have sex with their wives? You mean, every married men you know tells you this? I just like to know where you get this stats or claims? Or you assume? Or are you actually talking about yourself?
I still enjoy sex with my wife, so considering that I have the 3rd post, and bro coolpix2075 also have frequent sex, that means 2 out of 3.
So are you just "plucking form the air" a statement which is not based on any facts and figures? :cool:
This is a Commerical Sex discussion board .. not your friendly give free-gift female magazines hor .. ask this kind of question :rolleyes:
smallboi69
02-03-2005, 03:01 PM
Hi Bros,
I think Spore Woman has this mentality that after married you are their sex slave... my wife dont even bbj me after married.
they expect too much from men nowadays... after married:
1. You are the driver and also my chaffuer
2. Your bank account is ours, mine bank account is mine.
3. You are the maid and also the slave (housework)
they want to enjoy the success of your life... but when u losses everything u also losses her... she ran away with the BBD (bigger better deals)
l3atu
02-03-2005, 03:02 PM
1.. when GF BF stage..only see each other once a week and cannot tahan, must pok each time they meet.
Must admit its true...both parties are guilty of being horny.
2.. because GF will dress themself up but wife just hack care
Dun agree...most gals married or not cares about their appearances.
3.. GF normally hv better figure then wife (they put on weight after married)
Same answer as no. 2
4.. no moood, cos everyay see it also sian
Dats wher XXX movies comes into play....off the lights and imagine ur wife is the porn queen... :D
5.. quarelle.. hence sex mood also drop (will u still hv sex with her if u r angry)
Not necessary....I would be in the mood to go GL and have a gd XXX...
6.. they start to nag alot..and hence sex drive toward her also drop
Wrong !!! If my wife/GF starts nagging, I'll shove my dick into her mouth to shut her off and make sure she starts sucking on it... :D
TooFast
02-03-2005, 03:03 PM
they want to enjoy the success of your life... but when u losses everything u also losses her... she ran away with the BBD (bigger better deals)
That's a bit one-sided dun you think? :rolleyes:
Ah Tu, why your posting replies machiam ryanlim one huh? :p
l3atu
02-03-2005, 03:06 PM
Ah Tu, why your posting replies machiam ryanlim one huh? :p
Izzit ? But hor, my post dun have this :rolleyes: face leh...
ryanlim
02-03-2005, 03:09 PM
Izzit ? But hor, my post dun have this :rolleyes: face leh...
:rolleyes: ................
l3atu
02-03-2005, 03:10 PM
:rolleyes: ................
Speak of the devil... :rolleyes:
dat bin-jeow-jeow face ... :D
l3atu
02-03-2005, 03:13 PM
dat bin-jeow-jeow face ...
U know why Ryan like to use this :rolleyes: ? He got the habit of 'looking up' from below overhead bridges or escalators... :D
jackylee
02-03-2005, 03:36 PM
aiya.. cuz guys hor when gf bf time got the fresh feeling ma... after married... u poke the same hole for... ok lets say u high sex drive.. everyday once.. den u poke 1 week liao.. see the body see oso sian.. how? :(
i think sex with wife oso cannot too much..
lament
02-03-2005, 04:01 PM
everyday eat the same bloody dish also can get tired one sia ....
thats y i m still a happy swinging bachelor ...
If you read psychological articles, it explains that men are sexually stimulated by opposite sex's sight [body curves & contours] and touch [now I know why rk1 likes to teh ni]. On the contrary, women are more aroused by sound [sweet talks].
In view of the above, if a man walks through the same mountain track, see the same terrains [eg. the same 'creek', the same up and down 'slopes'] - 100% sure 1 2 venture into different sorts of terrains :D
peterfish
02-03-2005, 05:04 PM
I notice many man dun really wan to hv sex with the wife anymore after their married.. when they r bf gf stage..they hv sex often..why?
That is because when one is dating a gf, she is not your wife yet so better fuck more just in the event if break up, wouldn't lugi. Also dating involved a lot of money. Specially so for SG women. So men when dating, not much extra cash for ECA.
But when married, she will always be there for you and there is no rush to do it often.After maaried, don't need to spend so much money. So got extra money for ECA.
That is because when one is dating a gf, she is not your wife yet so better fuck more just in the event if break up, wouldn't lugi. Also dating involved a lot of money. Specially so for SG women. So men when dating, not much extra cash for ECA.
But when married, she will always be there for you and there is no rush to do it often.After maaried, don't need to spend so much money. So got extra money for ECA.
I grade A+ for your analysis :p
extraextra
02-03-2005, 05:17 PM
i am not married yet, but am wondering if married liao, then go out and have sex with other gals, be it FL or ONS etc; won't have a sense of guilt to your wife?
am just wondering only. thinking of getting marry in few years time.
titivillus
02-03-2005, 05:32 PM
You shouldn't be just having sex with your wife. You should be making love to her. You "have sex with" or you "fuck" HC gers, pros, ktv hostess, ONS etc etc.
Anybody going to Carnegie for a beer? $6/pint during "Crazy hour" i.e. from 6 pm to 7 pm
smallLJboy
02-03-2005, 05:55 PM
I am not married yet..but soon... because I got many guy friends all go choing GL, KTV and female collegues and even friends (like go cluding then process for ONS)..
many agree that their wife r so boaring.. after and before married v different. no more excitment anymore.. see them also sian... see liao didi cannot stand..
peterfish
02-03-2005, 06:30 PM
i am not married yet, but am wondering if married liao, then go out and have sex with other gals, be it FL or ONS etc; won't have a sense of guilt to your wife?
am just wondering only. thinking of getting marry in few years time.
You need to be married to understand why married men have sex with other women. It is very hard to explain and most likely you will not understand too. It is like telling a virgin how good sex is. He can only imagine and try to empathize. As for guilt, it varys from man to man. Some will feel guilty enough to stop. Some will feel guilty initial but soon will forget and resume while some have no sense of guilt.
peterfish
02-03-2005, 06:35 PM
I am not married yet..but soon... because I got many guy friends all go choing GL, KTV and female collegues and even friends (like go cluding then process for ONS)..
many agree that their wife r so boaring.. after and before married v different. no more excitment anymore.. see them also sian... see liao didi cannot stand..
Go on and try MARRIAGE. It will make your didi limp. :D
peterfish
02-03-2005, 06:37 PM
I grade A+ for your analysis :p
Ha ha. Thanks. It is true. Before marriage, go out with gf and then TCSS with frens. Can smoke, eat high cholesterol food, sleep late and drink her along for car rides. But married, most of the time stay home watched SCV. Frens jio, my wife showed me black face so I tried not to go. No more smoking when she is around, must sleep early and eat healthy foods and vegatables. Henceforth a lot of money was saved. :)
jackylee
03-03-2005, 06:49 AM
Ha ha. Thanks. It is true. Before marriage, go out with gf and then TCSS with frens. Can smoke, eat high cholesterol food, sleep late and drink her along for car rides. But married, most of the time stay home watched SCV. Frens jio, my wife showed me black face so I tried not to go. No more smoking when she is around, must sleep early and eat healthy foods and vegatables. Henceforth a lot of money was saved. :)
haha likdat good one.... :)
It's the other way round leh. I still enjoy having sex with my wife but she doesn't seem to be keen anymore, especially after having two kids. Too much stress from work, I think. She behaves differently when we are on holidays.
ballzballz
03-03-2005, 03:28 PM
There is a joke on marriage life...
A Man is never complete without marriage.....
After Marriage....he is Finished.....
You can laugh if you are not yet married..... but for some married personnel here.... its a warning that was not heeded at that point of time.
Sex after marriage is not really sianz... more like when you got more commitments weighing you down and den more sianz to have sex. Probably an occasional holiday would unwind both parties and spice things up. As guys have urges pretty often..... and probably only after a long time den go "holiday" he go elsewhere for his own "adventures"
smallLJboy
03-03-2005, 06:05 PM
that why I told my gf.. warn her to keep in shape even after married.. else I will lost interest in her very fast... and she say of cos she will....
I hope she keep her promise...
malayboy
03-03-2005, 06:40 PM
that why I told my gf.. warn her to keep in shape even after married.. else I will lost interest in her very fast... and she say of cos she will....
I hope she keep her promise...
She will keep in shape at your expense....by going for all the slimming solutions, from Marie France to every and anything that you can afford...
One of my friend's wife spent a bomb on these things on the premise of keeping him happy... Heng ah, my wife's size is still manageable after marriage.
Gerald Tan
03-03-2005, 07:40 PM
that why I told my gf.. warn her to keep in shape even after married.. else I will lost interest in her very fast... and she say of cos she will....
I hope she keep her promise...
Wow, actually..this is a good thread to understand more of 'sex after marriage' especially for guys or gals going to marry.
I agree that after marriage, you feel that u have 'conquered' her, and its time to find more 'adventure'..haha, perhaps that's the man's natural habit...
smallLJboy
03-03-2005, 09:15 PM
somtime is just like .... the moon over the other side look rounder.
sometime..when go out with my gf.. I can see that alot of other man walk pass all give her tat tiko look... ya.she like to wear those lian lian clothing.. but the problem is I will rather look at other gal in some sexy outfit then at her...
dunno why...
But when married, she will always be there for you and there is no rush to do it often.After married, don't need to spend so much money. So got extra money for ECA.
I think you had forgotten that you had 'paid' the dowry before wedding nite. That's why no need to spend so much money like you said. ;)
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