Help Me!!!!!!!!.......

[flowerpot]

What is happening??? Y do I always think of going FL when I have nothing to do...
Worst thing is, after going for 1 shot, I will continue strolling and go for 2nd shot if i found another who can give me 'feeling'.
Recently, I went to Lor 12 and foung a girl tingting. She is not a looker but found her kinda cute. so given her the 1st shot. After bonking her, saw a looker. wah, buay tahan.. sibei swee... quickly park car and go see her, but not ard le, she's wearing a purple top, so i named her miss purple... haiz... waited for some time, but never come down. so forget it, go home.
Next day, ard 7pm, low on vic M, so went cat 40. Wow. found tis cute gal, good service and hardworking...... ok happy le.. but night time cannot slp, went to GL to stroll again.. wah lan, saw this miss purple, knn... buay tahan liao.. so dun think so much le. go wif her again.... wah.. feeling was heaven... hahaha. now, really a happy man....
next day, lose $$ on football, sianz...... watch football halfway dun watch liao, go GL happier, then saw miss purple again... haiz sad.... cannot tahan again, go for a shot......
Now, I really sibei low on Vic M liao.... wah lan headache liao... dun know hw to explain to my GF where the $$$ went to...

But seriously, I really have no feeling when bonking my GF le....
These few years, had spent at least 10k bonking FL....
Really headache liao... but when bored.nothing to do, will think of FL again.
Any bro experiencing the same plight as me???

[mi.chi.eru]

What is happening???

The Idle Mind Is The Devil's Workshop.

Try to make urself busy and spend more time doing more things with ur gf/friends. :cool:

[flowerpot]

Its not that I dun wan to spend more time wif my friends. but my friends are also into FL, so we will still go looking for FL if i'm wif them.

My GF??? What can I do with her??? Any suggestions?

[paradise]

Similar problem.. no longer have urge to bonk gf.. why ah??? hm...

[flowerpot]

lolz...
bro paradize,
u also dun bonk your GF liao ah??
haha.... think same lor. nothing new, nothing fresh. sian le.

[z4cht3r]

wah..didn't noe so many guys in here in rather the same shit as me leh..actuali i'm worse off than u all lor..my gal doesn't allow me to bonk her..that's y i go find FL..or meet IRC gals lor..she only willing to suck me off lor..but i muz say, her BJ is improving fast..haha

[davidkohhy]

wah..didn't noe so many guys in here in rather the same shit as me leh..actuali i'm worse off than u all lor..my gal doesn't allow me to bonk her..that's y i go find FL..or meet IRC gals lor..she only willing to suck me off lor..but i muz say, her BJ is improving fast..haha
wow! at least she sucks u off! mine just let me rubba then when want to strip her n fuck she say enuff :(

[Andersontky]

Blame it on your dick and mind.. kekekeke

[dave188]

hee hee.. maybe can try new fresh ideas or style or even roleplay?

lolz...
bro paradize,
u also dun bonk your GF liao ah??
haha.... think same lor. nothing new, nothing fresh. sian le.

[dave188]

If anyone's wife is that adventurous, he better beware, guess she might go out for more escapade.

Bro,
Many man look out of their GF or wife for sex becos commercial sex offers BBBJ, AR and other exotic menu. Very seldom you will find yr spouse or GF that adventurous. And also every day eat same dish, kind of "sian" whereas FL you can change dishes. But be warn of the danger of S$$$ and STD. Im no angel, my marriage nearly broke down becos of this. Anyway, enjoy what is available but keep to a limit.

Cheers!!!!!!

[mi.chi.eru]

If anyone's wife is that adventurous, he better beware, guess she might go out for more escapade.

My Missus very adventurous. :D
And very Guai. *thanking my lucky stars*

That's why long time no FR. (from commercial world.)

heh heh

[Spursgetz]

look like I'm not the only one that have this problem! :rolleyes:

I'm facing the same problem as you. everyday just think of going down GL to bonk those PRC FL. Worst for me is I dun like $40 tomyam which mean that my ave expenditure is $60 to $120 per bonk.

When low on vit M, will search odd lor or lor 14 for $60 bonk, and when have more vit M, will recce around triangle or lor 10-12, and sometime those $120/150 hotel conact that get from bros here.

I'm also starting to worry about my condition, and started to spend more time on jogging. Actually, was jogging regularly till few months back where work commitment and GL exploration doesn allow me to jog that often anymore.

I know that by reducing the free time one have on hand, perhaps will think less of going GL but problem is after my jog, perhaps at around 9pm+, mind will start wonder again, started to think of which gal at which lor haven try etc etc. And sometime afte reading the FR from bro here, really have the urge to speed down to GL to try immediately.

Currently, have managed to restraint for the past 5 days but doubt can hold on any longer. Was driving around GL at 5pm yesterday, not much qualtity on display so save up on vit M. Wanted to go down again last night but luckily friend not free and also part of me wanted to stay home watch the delayed EPL game.

But seem like tonight will definitely be there, been eyeing this PRC FL at lor 10 so mind keep thinking of her. so, anyone want to cheog together? Err..this thread is supposed to find solution to cut down trip to GL right. :D

[wanderer23]

To the thread starter i think it's becoming an addiction either physically or psychologically so you had better seek help thru counselling and engage in other healthy activities. I mean everybody has the urge but i think you are letting it get out of control. Seek help there's nothing to be embarrassed about it. Regards

[Castrol]

wah..didn't noe so many guys in here in rather the same shit as me leh..actuali i'm worse off than u all lor..my gal doesn't allow me to bonk her..that's y i go find FL..or meet IRC gals lor..she only willing to suck me off lor..but i muz say, her BJ is improving fast..haha

just my hunble opinion, i think in this age, it should be quite common for men and women to bonk even before they go steady.

my advice is, although you havent marry her, you have to find a way to start bonking her asap.
reason - that she is only going out with you. full stop.

it is a crying pain, that one should bonk FLs but not one's own gf.
but what's the reason given for not allowing FJ?

[BobbyChan]

wah..didn't noe so many guys in here in rather the same shit as me leh..actuali i'm worse off than u all lor..my gal doesn't allow me to bonk her..that's y i go find FL..or meet IRC gals lor..she only willing to suck me off lor..but i muz say, her BJ is improving fast..haha


Have you ever gave a thought why she is improving fast.... :D

Joking...ok.

[BobbyChan]

I have this problem too. for the last 3 weeks i have spend more than 1k on FL. But i think must learn to control and find some other activities.

I think going to the gym and jogging is a good pass time as you can bulid up your strength and stamina for a better and long bonk with the FL.

[DehOne]

To the original poster: you are in classic 'addiction mode'. In this case you are addicted to paid for sex. I suspect that many bros here are in the same mode.

I'm afraid that you need to go 'cold turkey'. Stop coming to this site (sorry Sam!) 'cos it's only going to fire you up. Don't go ANYWHERE near Geylang. Avoid TNs and HCs like the plague. Even go as far as taking a break from having sex with your GF. You need to get out of the sex cycle for awhile. Sign up with a gym and have a workout every time you are feeling horny. The key is to distract yourself and keep a physical distance from places where you might fall prey to temptation.

It's good that you are aware of your situation but you need to nip this thing in the bud now before you end up broke. If you do follow my advice, we won't be hearing from you for awhile. Good luck bro!

[paradise]

Bro flowerpot... u are right. still bonk her lah.. maybe once a week loh.. used to be 4-5 times a week.. now no longer have the urge liao.. dunno why too.. worst thing is, she has a rather high sex-drive...haha.. so have to finger her often.. haha

[Sweet Trip]

What is happening??? Y do I always think of going FL when I have nothing to do...
Worst thing is, after going for 1 shot, I will continue strolling and go for 2nd shot if i found another who can give me 'feeling'.
Recently, I went to Lor 12 and foung a girl tingting. She is not a looker but found her kinda cute. so given her the 1st shot. After bonking her, saw a looker. wah, buay tahan.. sibei swee... quickly park car and go see her, but not ard le, she's wearing a purple top, so i named her miss purple... haiz... waited for some time, but never come down. so forget it, go home.
Next day, ard 7pm, low on vic M, so went cat 40. Wow. found tis cute gal, good service and hardworking...... ok happy le.. but night time cannot slp, went to GL to stroll again.. wah lan, saw this miss purple, knn... buay tahan liao.. so dun think so much le. go wif her again.... wah.. feeling was heaven... hahaha. now, really a happy man....
next day, lose $$ on football, sianz...... watch football halfway dun watch liao, go GL happier, then saw miss purple again... haiz sad.... cannot tahan again, go for a shot......
Now, I really sibei low on Vic M liao.... wah lan headache liao... dun know hw to explain to my GF where the $$$ went to...

But seriously, I really have no feeling when bonking my GF le....
These few years, had spent at least 10k bonking FL....
Really headache liao... but when bored.nothing to do, will think of FL again.
Any bro experiencing the same plight as me???


dude i m in the same plight as u. I was very active in this foum back in the delphi days (nick: Snowy69) but i decide to quit thinkin that its a total waste of money, riskin my life etc, my family members etc, morality etc. I thought to myself is this going to go on forever? So i decide to subscribe to porn website (pornking.com is the best) so that whenever i have the urge to fcuk someone other than my lovely gf, i just wank off while lookin at porn. It worked for around 2 years...but sadly i m back again. Other brudders' advice/comments appreciated. Thanks in advance.


Sweet Trip

[iersan]

We've all been through this addiction phase....there were nights when I had a good screw & on me way back to the car, saw another one that catches my fancy & went for another around...and another!!!!! It was getting crazy...all those money spent & I cant even remember the faces of those that I've screwed....the money would have been better spent buying my mates a hell of a good meal & a few round of drinks. My solution... set a monthly budget for my screws & stick to it no matter what. ( having a regular sex partner who isnt a FL would help too) I know it's easier said than done...but you'll do it once common sense hits you on the head, else it's a vicious cycle that will never end. good luck mate.

[cumcumcum]

Same sentiments exactly.

Had my 1st experience in GL yesterday and met this girl. Thought not much service but can click. The thing is that, for the whole of today until now, she's always on my mind, and no matter what i do i can't forget her! Really thinking of going to look for her again tonight. It's really a diesease man...

[nirvana]

Bro,
Many man look out of their GF or wife for sex becos commercial sex offers BBBJ, AR and other exotic menu. Very seldom you will find yr spouse or GF that adventurous. And also every day eat same dish, kind of "sian" whereas FL you can change dishes. But be warn of the danger of S$$$ and STD. Im no angel, my marriage nearly broke down becos of this. Anyway, enjoy what is available but keep to a limit.

Cheers!!!!!!


Sir, is this u tat i know?

[V|ernar]

4 main things that man will die for.

sex , money , power and drink.

go to the kitchen , take a knife and give 2 tight slap on yourself .

threaten your little brother if this happen again , i chop you off !

well , it work for me , "he" has been sleeping soundly nowsdays..

even when i wake up.. he also refused to raise flag and sing song with me~

haiz..

only sometimes when he is in need then he will alarm me abt it , save quite a few bucks on bonking.

[shanghaijen]

Like some of the bros here said, we are all addicted to it, especially the paid sex part. For me, the free ones after a while also sian. Service some more not as good and no variety. I tried to quit paid sex for a while and stayed away from GL and all those places for six months. But in the end, couldn't resist. And when I started again, it was more and more frequent, like making up for lost time. Kind of like when you quit smoking and start again. Usually become heavier smoker.

After many many bonks, and plenty of money spent, I realised that the best thing to do is set a budget like another bro said and stick to it. You can't run away from it, now that you have tasted its pleasures. Just try to make sure it doesnt control you.

I'm probably beyond redemption though. I've no interest in chasing girls for free sex, but I do try to limit the money I spend nowadays.

[flowerpot]

4 main things that man will die for.

sex , money , power and drink.

go to the kitchen , take a knife and give 2 tight slap on yourself .

threaten your little brother if this happen again , i chop you off !

well , it work for me , "he" has been sleeping soundly nowsdays..

even when i wake up.. he also refused to raise flag and sing song with me~

haiz..

only sometimes when he is in need then he will alarm me abt it , save quite a few bucks on bonking.

Lolz. Not a bad solution. But a single thought abt 'chop u off' makes me shiver.
I will not do that to myself...

[V|ernar]

hmm.. i remember 1 of the brothers told me before..

place 150 dollar on top of your head.. then pcc.. after you done.. you saw three 50 dollars note drop from sky.. the feeling is as same as having a good sex.

maybe this is a better way for you?

Lolz. Not a bad solution. But a single thought abt 'chop u off' makes me shiver.

if you doesnt shiver , it wont work anyway~

have fun.

[Spursgetz]

The thing is that, for the whole of today until now, she's always on my mind, and no matter what i do i can't forget her! Really thinking of going to look for her again tonight.

understand how u feel, as mi also often find myself in such position, keep on wanting to go back and look for her, see her again.

best is to control, unless you are rich enough. If not you will be broke before you realise. I once spent almost $5K in 3 weeks for a FL, looked for her every single day. :eek:

[bozocum]

?????go and see a medium (tang ki ) for cure la,, money explanation easy la,, football bet lost lo

[lesnar]

hmm.. i remember 1 of the brothers told me before..

place 150 dollar on top of your head.. then pcc.. after you done.. you saw three 50 dollars note drop from sky.. the feeling is as same as having a good sex.

Wow.....this is a good idea....maybe i can try also..... :D

[songsong1213]

Hi Bro,

Let me tell you how to solve your problem, go and sian a girl you like and you will be so busy with her that you will forget about the FL or WL. This is provided you are not married.

However for my case, I use to be like you (looking for paid sex) last time, however after I was in relationship with one girl in my office, I don't visit the FL anymore, BUT...... I am married and it give me more problem later. That's why I am here again looking for FL contact again :D

[windsteerer]

To me this problem is not a real problem. "Keep bonking While u can!" is my memo. To me the real problem is "Money is not enough". :p
One day when i feel tired, then settle down loh. :)

[Gentle Beast]

In a piece of paper, keep a record of your bonks - Date, Cost (FL, hotel,everything). Keep doing this and keep track of the amount spent. The point here is, if you see with your eyes the amount of $$$$$$$$ spent, you will 'wake-up' (I hope so!) Good Luck

[nirvana]

In a piece of paper, keep a record of your bonks - Date, Cost (FL, hotel,everything). Keep doing this and keep track of the amount spent. The point here is, if you see with your eyes the amount of $$$$$$$$ spent, you will 'wake-up' (I hope so!) Good Luck

i think i must do this....over the year, i spend so much on bonking liao..
however, i was thinking... since i didnt smoke... so somehow can balance it

[flowerpot]

Hi Bro,

Let me tell you how to solve your problem, go and sian a girl you like and you will be so busy with her that you will forget about the FL or WL. This is provided you are not married.

However for my case, I use to be like you (looking for paid sex) last time, however after I was in relationship with one girl in my office, I don't visit the FL anymore, BUT...... I am married and it give me more problem later. That's why I am here again looking for FL contact again :D

Hahaha. bro.. make me laugh...
Haiz.. I cannot sian girls liao la.. I got GF liao... so... haiz...

[flowerpot]

In a piece of paper, keep a record of your bonks - Date, Cost (FL, hotel,everything). Keep doing this and keep track of the amount spent. The point here is, if you see with your eyes the amount of $$$$$$$$ spent, you will 'wake-up' (I hope so!) Good Luck


Cannot la.... I also know i have spent $$$$$$$$, but still wun wake up....

[flowerpot]

i think i must do this....over the year, i spend so much on bonking liao..
however, i was thinking... since i didnt smoke... so somehow can balance it

Bro,
then im lagi jia lat liao...
Cos i spend on boking and on cigarette... haiz...

[newbieboy]

I think keeping accounts of expenditure is the best. then got clearer picture, some more if you boliao can factor in inflation and stuff, see how much you really spent, not just a rough gauge. cos rough gauge when the shit comes down to it your did won't be able to think clearly. as your didi grow bigger the figure in your head will grow smaller and smaller until it's ok (BUT IT'S NOT!)

i also have gf, but cos we always quarrel, this is my revenge!!! lol damn jialat NSF hard to find $$$ to fool around also, so i'm also broke all the time. somemore i drink heavily and club sometimes, like to buy cds and books lol! damn f***ed-up life sia. i tell myself as long as no need to borrow $$$, will try to tahan as long as possible. cos paid sex not so much worries, knn no need to feel guilty or obligated to do anything. want to foreplay or not up to you, want to do for 1 hour up to you, want BBBJ or not up to you, everything also up to you!

[bhoven]

Its not that I dun wan to spend more time wif my friends. but my friends are also into FL, so we will still go looking for FL if i'm wif them.

My GF??? What can I do with her??? Any suggestions?

Seems to me that you have a high sex drive which is fine by itself but you also crave variety. Since you have a regular sex partner ( your GF ) why not inject some sexcitement in your sessions with your GF by doing it in some offbeat places, watching porn whilst doing it, taking a sensual bath together, get her to wear sexy lingerie and strip before you statrt love-making etc... Myabe the problem is that sex has become routine for both of you > Dat's why you no longer enjoy it. This is a common problem with older married couples who are no longer physicaaly sex shaped too....

If you can rejuvenate your sex life with your regular partner, your finances will be less drained...

[nirvana]

Bro,
then im lagi jia lat liao...
Cos i spend on boking and on cigarette... haiz...

u better, i am to poor to effort smoking

[flowerpot]

Seems to me that you have a high sex drive which is fine by itself but you also crave variety. Since you have a regular sex partner ( your GF ) why not inject some sexcitement in your sessions with your GF by doing it in some offbeat places, watching porn whilst doing it, taking a sensual bath together, get her to wear sexy lingerie and strip before you statrt love-making etc... Myabe the problem is that sex has become routine for both of you > Dat's why you no longer enjoy it. This is a common problem with older married couples who are no longer physicaaly sex shaped too....

If you can rejuvenate your sex life with your regular partner, your finances will be less drained...

Afraid I suggest her to wear some sexy lingerie, she will scold me 'siao' or say i play a fool outside....

[flowerpot]

u better, i am to poor to effort smoking

No la.... Im worst. Spend all those money on entertainment... A bit guilty.

[nirvana]

No la.... Im worst. Spend all those money on entertainment... A bit guilty.


haiz... we in same boat.. too many pussy, too little $$.

hehehe

[flowerpot]

haiz... we in same boat.. too many pussy, too little $$.

hehehe

Hahaha......

But how u complain how poor u r...
When a Gergeous Pussy appears.... still will spend wan lor...

[Regnad]

Totally agree with what flowerpot.

Often can't bear to give up pussy then $$$ :D

[Spursgetz]

In a piece of paper, keep a record of your bonks - Date, Cost (FL, hotel,everything). Keep doing this and keep track of the amount spent. The point here is, if you see with your eyes the amount of $$$$$$$$ spent, you will 'wake-up' (I hope so!) Good Luck


I did keep in record in excel file, containing all the details of the commercial bonk I had, such as date, venue -TN/HC/GL 150/GL FL/Hotel etc, skill rating, and some comment. However, I seldom include the cost.

Perhaps I should start including the damage. However, end of the day, if 1 can afford, no matter how high the total damage will not deter one from seeking commercial bonk, as mose of the times for man, small head control big head, especially in the presence of beauty. :D

[flowerpot]

I did keep in record in excel file, containing all the details of the commercial bonk I had, such as date, venue -TN/HC/GL 150/GL FL/Hotel etc, skill rating, and some comment. However, I seldom include the cost.

Perhaps I should start including the damage. However, end of the day, if 1 can afford, no matter how high the total damage will not deter one from seeking commercial bonk, as mose of the times for man, small head control big head, especially in the presence of beauty. :D

y did'nt u keep record of the cost since u r already making the effort to record it.

[V|ernar]

I did keep in record in excel file, containing all the details of the commercial bonk I had, such as date, venue -TN/HC/GL 150/GL FL/Hotel etc, skill rating, and some comment. However, I seldom include the cost.

wah kao , can lend me the tiny black book? :p


y did'nt u keep record of the cost since u r already making the effort to record it

talk money , hurt feeling mah~

service rate A , bed skill rate A , bbbj rate A , cost 500..

see liao.. also will think twice~

[Spursgetz]

y did'nt u keep record of the cost since u r already making the effort to record it.


hmm..that's a good qn..myself also dunno why. Perhaps doesn't want to know the truth lor :D I guess in 2004 alone, I easily spent more than $12K on bonking. too much liao, promised myself to cut down in 2005, going to limit myself to $500 max per mth.

[makpoke]

yeah better control..i spent 10k in 4 mths...abit out of hand... :(

[V|ernar]

yo yo ~

brother Spursgetz , your sig hor.. it my fav song leh.. you got the mp3 bo?

[trymeout]

Lolz. Not a bad solution. But a single thought abt 'chop u off' makes me shiver.
I will not do that to myself...

then think about ur gf or wife chopping it off when she finds out.

btw, this happens quite often in real life, wife finds out husband cheats, take a chopper or scissors, cut it off when he sleeps. i read it from some magazine some months back.

if u're lucky n can get to hospital in time, can reattach. otherwise, say bye bye to ur bro n learn to be a 'tai jian'

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i know it's difficult for guys to get out of the addiction cycle and having the same dish for months or years can be a bore. but ever thought if ur wife/gf also thinks the same way? it's easier for girls to get a screw u noe? they don't even have to take out the money, don't even have to make the effort to sweet talk, they can just go to a pub n get picked up. all that simple.

moral of the story, want to play, play moderately. most importantly, do not neglect ur significant other or let them sniff the details out. wat goes around come around.

just my 2 cents worth.

[chessepie]

Yo Bro, this is serious man. U should try a cold bath(cold turkey) sometimes. Anyway, to spice things up with your GF, u should do things u guys haven't tried before like role plays, sexy lingerie or sextoys.

Visiting FLs is an pleasant affair but once it gets outta control it will ruin us. Keep your mind occupied like making more Vit M.......

[ThaiG]

This will surely help.. spend the time doing charity works.

[nazi_healer]

How long u with ur gal? and y she never allow u to bonk her?

[arghhhh]

do more exercise
cos ur body muscles is distributed to either ur sex drive or ur physical strength.

[flowerpot]

How long u with ur gal? and y she never allow u to bonk her?

4 yrs liao...
not she dun allow me to bonk her..
its we bonk til sianz... so dun bonk le.....haiz...

[songsong1213]

Hahaha. bro.. make me laugh...
Haiz.. I cannot sian girls liao la.. I got GF liao... so... haiz...

Hi Bro,

Got wife also can carry on sian girl, beside you only got girlfriend, still can choose and compare :D

[Spursgetz]

wah kao , can lend me the tiny black book?

errr..cannot lah..personal secret. sometime when do updating, will refresh my memory and the feeling quite shiok :p


talk money , hurt feeling mah~

service rate A , bed skill rate A , bbbj rate A , cost 500..

see liao also will think twice~

I dun rate with A, B, C etc but score like 8/10, 9/10 etc. I have few categories such as look, body, HJ, BJ, FJ, frenching, Overall etc :D

And I pretty detailed as my comment alway very long, describing the whole session and some personal comment. And if I do rtn on the same gal, I will include the date and continue with the comment.

[Spursgetz]

yeah better control..i spent 10k in 4 mths...abit out of hand... :(


wow,look like i'm not the only one contributing so much to the commercial sex world huh. Now look back abit painful


Actually this 12K only strictly include commercial bonk, yet to factor in the cost for having 2 PRC GF in 2004 (one still with me), and also the cost of airfare to fly over to PRC look for them etc. All in all.....hai...better dun go and think about it. :(

[CheongKingKong]

But seriously, I really have no feeling when bonking my GF le....
These few years, had spent at least 10k bonking FL....
Really headache liao... but when bored.nothing to do, will think of FL again.
Any bro experiencing the same plight as me???

BTW, how old are you? Seriously if you are still young I can understands, hormone still raging mah...and if you are still young...maybe you should go to disco to cheong...try sianing gals there for a change...keeps your mind off those FL...

I guess 1 of the main reasons is that your GF could not sextisfy you...
:D

[Spursgetz]

yo yo ~

brother Spursgetz , your sig hor.. it my fav song leh you got the mp3 bo?

I have the CD, I play it everyday in my car. But its the "shakehead version" :p I love this song coz intro by my PRC GF, and its her fav song too. You want to listen to it...I give you her no, you call her and the ringing tone is this song

My Hp also this ring tone but you cannot get it from those ring tone download hotline or website. only those china hp can download the ringtone. I did it by surfing these china websites, play it over my PC and using my hp voice recorder to record it.

Quite troublesome but when you think that very few Singaporean know this song and when your hp ring, many will stare at you like : what song is that" ...den quite worth it liao lor.

bro, you can key in 老鼠爱大米 in your search, and you will see many many websites available. Then look for the "Flash" and you will get what you one. But mi quite an IT idoit so perhaps you have better way to do it. :D

Btw, that Korean singer Boa had brought the copyright to this song and you will soon hear a Korean version before CNY. Its on the website. believe by then, many Sg will start to pay attention to this song.


Cheers

[bhoven]

Afraid I suggest her to wear some sexy lingerie, she will scold me 'siao' or say i play a fool outside....

But if she also finds sex boring tell her this should hot it up a bit..then prove it to her with more creative foreplay etc

[PKTM]

i also have gf, but cos we always quarrel, this is my revenge!!!

Wah... quarrel only u revenge by f*cking around?!?! If she flirt with other guy, what u do? Kill her? aiyoh... i sense a bit of MCP'ness and self-centre in u leh. somemore she is your gf only... :rolleyes:

[cashlove]

To the original poster: you are in classic 'addiction mode'. In this case you are addicted to paid for sex. I suspect that many bros here are in the same mode.

I'm afraid that you need to go 'cold turkey'. Stop coming to this site (sorry Sam!) 'cos it's only going to fire you up. Don't go ANYWHERE near Geylang. Avoid TNs and HCs like the plague. Even go as far as taking a break from having sex with your GF. You need to get out of the sex cycle for awhile. Sign up with a gym and have a workout every time you are feeling horny. The key is to distract yourself and keep a physical distance from places where you might fall prey to temptation.

It's good that you are aware of your situation but you need to nip this thing in the bud now before you end up broke. If you do follow my advice, we won't be hearing from you for awhile. Good luck bro!

Veri very well said.

Another tip. Find a hobby (no sex) that you like and do it during your free time. Some suggestion, Jogging, gym, golf, movies, listen to CD, cooking, reading, swimming.

Activities to avoid as they will lead you to sex and horney. Drinking, Eating(especially eating red meat and seafood.), watch porn, watch gals, talk to friends about sex.

Tell yourself, planet earth has more to offer than just SEX.

[cashlove]

To Flowerpot and Spursgetz,

I got the same problems. I managed to get over it.

After sometime, you will feel sian already. You will tell yourself, "Ai Yah, no big deal lah. Been there done that, it is just another vegetable from China, I makan many before liao." Then you will slowly leave the scence.

Then one fine day, you will be back. Back older and wiser. You still bonk, but you take thing easy. ;)

[Spursgetz]

To Flowerpot and Spursgetz,

Then one fine day, you will be back. Back older and wiser. You still bonk, but you take thing easy. ;)


Bro, thanks for the advise.

btw, I do have the same thinking that I will get over it one day..but problem is when?

I do manage to get over going to KTV. Used to like that alot but now not really keen. Cheonging KTV is lagi more expensive than going GL, and may not necessary get to release.

[Fruiteefruit]

I have been bonking for like 7 years and there is always this guilty feeling bitting me, damn ....... Even my first bonking experience was with a Korean FL (No, I didn't manage to get an ang bao. Don't think she knows what ang bao is ).

One of my friends told me that my addiction is even more expensive than his addiction ( he loves E-pills and Ganja). I thought of it and its so damn true. Never ever considered or calculated how much I spent on the bonking services. I think by now, the figures is definitely beyond my calculation.

I guess everyone will be addicted to something new initially. But after some time, maybe the enthusiam MIGHT wear off. Surprisingly commercial bonk didn't wear off that easily. I guess its that huge variety of babes and wonderful skills that attract many bros and myself into this paradise.

I did had a gf and we bonked like 2 to 4 times a week. But after sometime, the attraction just wear off. I guess many guys like myself still prefers variety and great foreplay skills. But in the end, can our pocket withstand our urge? I know mine always gave way thats why at times, I really feel guilty for spending so much on commercial bonks.

Now Im trying to psycho myself to look at commercial bonk at a wider view and hope that there is one "view" I can "see" to convince me to stop patronising commercial bonk. I have tried controlling my cashflow and scaring myself but it was no use. Hope that all bros here and myself can find a way to kerb and control their undying support for commercial bonks.

All the best, brothers, hope that we succeed.

Cheerz.

[hann73]

Bros, ever tried the oldest and well-known method? Try taking a very cold shower, after 5 mins under the cold shower, all urges will be washed away. Hope it helps. :p

[flowerpot]

I will try that........ hope it works and save my pocket a hole...

[flowerpot]

haha ... I think the best thing to do is to leave this forum for good ...
Or try the ultimate, cut away your own didi ... :D

For real, addiction is really mental... if you cannot afford to bonk one day, you will not have this urge anyway.. so the real thing to do is to spend your money away on something maybe a car? Then, every month pay $1k installment, you will not think of paid sex alreadly. :D

very true, i totally agree with tis. buying a car. ok, I will do that... I change a good car, so spend all my $$$ on car..

[newbieboy]

Wah... quarrel only u revenge by f*cking around?!?! If she flirt with other guy, what u do? Kill her? aiyoh... i sense a bit of MCP'ness and self-centre in u leh. somemore she is your gf only... :rolleyes:


you wouldn't say that if you knew how much i did for her.

anyway, when i say revenge, means payback right? pay back implies i kena before right? or else how to pay back? use your brains la.. everybody's got their problems and their own ways to deal with things. you don't know my life so don't judge me yeah? you want to comment at least give constructive advice, don't jump to conclusions.

kao. must make me spell it out for you sia. what makes you think she doesn't already flirt with other men? is if fair to me for you to assume that i will either beat, or inflict any form of injury towards her, let alone kill? somethings don't have to spell out in full. what good will it do?

[navras]

I have been bonking for like 7 years and there is always this guilty feeling bitting me, damn .......
Now Im trying to psycho myself to look at commercial bonk at a wider view and hope that there is one "view" I can "see" to convince me to stop patronising commercial bonk. I have tried controlling my cashflow and scaring myself but it was no use. Hope that all bros here and myself can find a way to kerb and control their undying support for commercial bonks.

All the best, brothers, hope that we succeed.

Cheerz.

Bro,
IMHO, self-control and strong will power is important and try not to think too much about sex. Cold shower does helps. Sometimes for me, if the urge is too strong and I don't want to spend $$$$ on commercial bonks. PCC is the
next best thing to relief myself. :o

[flowerpot]

Bro,
IMHO, self-control and strong will power is important and try not to think too much about sex. Cold shower does helps. Sometimes for me, if the urge is too strong and I don't want to spend $$$$ on commercial bonks. PCC is the
next best thing to relief myself. :o

OK......
We shall all PCC and save the $$$..

[navras]

OK......
We shall all PCC and save the $$$..

Hahahahahahahahahahahahha....
:D

[flowerpot]

Hi bro flower pot :
I read your FR and think I suggest this to make u like your GF, its up to u to consider, Ok :
(a) U can enjoy more wiht your GF instead of calling FL by making urself jealous. How ? Pls let you gf bonk with me, and u watch. I am a gentleman and nice man, so u dun worry ok. U will get excited and den feel jealous......and will like ur gf more from now...

(b) U can make lovemaking enjoyable with ur gf by having 2-1. Meaning 2 guys with ur gf. Pls consider me, and I will teach u how..

Well, think about it..u can pm me to arrange details.
best regards


this is a PM this guy sent me....
Bro,
Pls advice what I should do with him?

[navras]

this is a PM this guy sent me....
Bro,
Pls advice what I should do with him?

What do you make out of this Bro?
Well you do meet a lot of interesting people in SB.

[flowerpot]

dun know wat to do with him....
frankly speaking, pissed off with wat he said...
so asking for advice from bros here...

[V|ernar]

need a extra hand in dealing with him?

[flowerpot]

need a extra hand in dealing with him?

Haha... dun mind leh..........

[cashlove]

Or try the ultimate, cut away your own didi ... :D
:D


This remind me of a story I watch from Ch 12 Discovery channel.

A Japanese monk is in a temple having a retreat, meditation. He refuse to see any visitor. The temple is out of bound for women. a prostitute happen to be there one day, the monk saw her. She ask the monk for some help. Monk is extremely pissed off. He take a knife and cut off his didi and gave the didi to her.

I guess his message is "The penis is a bad thing, it hinder me from attaining Nivarna. It is attracted by you. I do my penis a favour by giving it to you."
There is a ancient Japanese picture that show this.

Flowerpot and Spursgetz, please dont ever do this.

[Spursgetz]

Flowerpot and Spursgetz, please dont ever do this.


Dun worry bro..mi not so crazy...love my didi too much to cut it away. :D Like i say, starting from 2005, I will reduce my bonking expenditure to $500/mth.

Let say average $80/bonk, I can only have 6 session in a mth. Much much reduced liao. Now currents is about 3-4 time/week.

[V|ernar]

Dun worry bro..mi not so crazy...love my didi too much to cut it away

simi also can cut but cannot cut didi!

i remember watching a very old porn film , 2 girls was bbbj a man that was tied on the pillar.. when he up liao.. a baddie took a stick and beat the didi and after that.. he can only use it for pee...

poor thing..

[jjdoggie]

What is happening??? Y do I always think of going FL when I have nothing to do...
Worst thing is, after going for 1 shot, I will continue strolling and go for 2nd shot if i found another who can give me 'feeling'.
Recently, I went to Lor 12 and foung a girl tingting. She is not a looker but found her kinda cute. so given her the 1st shot. After bonking her, saw a looker. wah, buay tahan.. sibei swee... quickly park car and go see her, but not ard le, she's wearing a purple top, so i named her miss purple... haiz... waited for some time, but never come down. so forget it, go home.
Next day, ard 7pm, low on vic M, so went cat 40. Wow. found tis cute gal, good service and hardworking...... ok happy le.. but night time cannot slp, went to GL to stroll again.. wah lan, saw this miss purple, knn... buay tahan liao.. so dun think so much le. go wif her again.... wah.. feeling was heaven... hahaha. now, really a happy man....
next day, lose $$ on football, sianz...... watch football halfway dun watch liao, go GL happier, then saw miss purple again... haiz sad.... cannot tahan again, go for a shot......
Now, I really sibei low on Vic M liao.... wah lan headache liao... dun know hw to explain to my GF where the $$$ went to...

But seriously, I really have no feeling when bonking my GF le....
These few years, had spent at least 10k bonking FL....
Really headache liao... but when bored.nothing to do, will think of FL again.
Any bro experiencing the same plight as me???

(U having Mensus like gals...is it.....Just kidding...)

Take a good break from Singapore....Choose a destination...Thailand, Malaysia N Bali is good.....cost of Price.....and sometimes....u can get free ONS from Bali.....I have a few over my years....or Perhaps if u have more $$ GO JAPAN...u wun regret it.....I was Bonking everyday.....in Japan...U can really get Hardcore with the girls there...but cost xpensive....( Maybe these will enchance yr sexuAL appetite......).....

OR Change yr Lifestyle, maybe getting too routine for u cos of the stress and lifestyle in SIngapore....Go for a workout in Gym...or go scuba diving....etc...

In regards of the Tsunami Crisis...I will ne be banging my gal on the eve......n new year day....

Happy Holiday....

[kelvindartz]

Hi Bros, i havent engaged in commercial sex but i'm quite eager to actually the. However, after reading all these, i'm so afraid that this will eventually turn into an addiction and kill me off. Do u all agree that for newbies like me, the best is not to start?

[navras]

Hi Bros, i havent engaged in commercial sex but i'm quite eager to actually the. However, after reading all these, i'm so afraid that this will eventually turn into an addiction and kill me off. Do u all agree that for newbies like me, the best is not to start?

SEX is addictive..... :eek:
So the choice is really up to you to decide....
so what if all bros said that don't and you yourself can't resist the temptation....
What say you? To bonK or not to bonk? :)

[tokkon1]

Hi Bros, i havent engaged in commercial sex but i'm quite eager to actually the. However, after reading all these, i'm so afraid that this will eventually turn into an addiction and kill me off. Do u all agree that for newbies like me, the best is not to start?

U havn't tried commercial sex but how about sex with gf. Do you enjoy them? If yes best to stick to gf as commercial sex can definitely be adictive. Move into commercial sex only when u r financially stable to sustain it as a habit.

H'ever speaking from personal experience, not everyone into commercial sex becomes an addict. Excercise restraint and willpower and as in evrything else, do it in moderation.

If gf is new, initiate her into the various arts of lovemaking. Watch porn movies together and encourage her to practice what you both see. This puts variety and fun into your sex life. When u r happy with yr gf, less temptation to engage in commercial sex.

Just my 2 cts worth. :)

[navras]

H'ever speaking from personal experience, not everyone into commercial sex becomes an addict. Excercise restraint and willpower and as in evrything else, do it in moderation.
Just my 2 cts worth. :)

True! True!
Agreed with you bro..... :D

[benz]

no doubt sex can become an addiction but depends on yourself i think.
must remember not to let the little head control the big head lah.

if you haven't engaged in commercial sex before and worried about
it killing you off then suggest you better not try :)


Hi Bros, i havent engaged in commercial sex but i'm quite eager to actually the. However, after reading all these, i'm so afraid that this will eventually turn into an addiction and kill me off. Do u all agree that for newbies like me, the best is not to start?

[Spursgetz]

If haven tasted commercial sex before, then you obviously dunno what you had been missing out all this while :p So why want to try? Just continue to lead your current lifestyle.

My personal experience is that once you started on it, chances are you will enjoy and wanted for more. That's what happen to me. I was a very "nice and decent" guy till 27 yr old. Before that, I dun engaged in any commercial sex activities, no KTV, no massage (as not TN then).

But once I started on TN around 2 year back, and remember its DFL at JC, I got hooked and went back about 2 times/week. Also when I started to cheong PRC FL at GL, I spent about 2-4 times/week walking around the lor looking for target.

I stopped going to TN these days, bloody expensive and environment no good. But thats after almost 1.5 years. And you can roughly guess how much $$ I had contributed to those PDMM/and at later stage, those tourist visa SYT.

Again, my advice is dun get started if you never have.

Just my 2 cent worth.

[wolfy]

haha very true! once you embark on the path to the "dark side" you'll have a hard time turning back :D

If haven tasted commercial sex before, then you obviously dunno what you had been missing out all this while :p So why want to try? Just continue to lead your current lifestyle.

My personal experience is that once you started on it, chances are you will enjoy and wanted for more. That's what happen to me. I was a very "nice and decent" guy till 27 yr old. Before that, I dun engaged in any commercial sex activities, no KTV, no massage (as not TN then).

Again, my advice is dun get started if you never have.

Just my 2 cent worth.

[gremio82]

Absolutely agree, cos once u went into the dark room, it will be damn hard for u to find the switch......... :)

For me, i tried bcos i dun haf a gf b4 and wanted to haf a taste of having looking, touching and feeling a gal and some more is naked.......

Others may say i should gif my dear but who noes whether i will be alive to got a taste for it or not........... :D

[navras]

haha very true! once you embark on the path to the "dark side" you'll have a hard time turning back

Very true!!
Like junior Skywalker very tempted to join senior Skywalker to the "dark side"
but in the end he resisted as once crossed over,the path is of NO RETURN!!!
Think again...What say you to bonk or not to bonk?.... :)
For me, I have joined the Dark Side.........very hard to quit leh..... :(

[benz]

going to the "dark side" is still okie. don't go to the "duck side" and screw other guy's back side can liao haha...

me thinks very true. like tasting forbidden fruit, once you try very hard to not want to try again :D

Very true!!
Like junior Skywalker very tempted to join senior Skywalker to the "dark side"
but in the end he resisted as once crossed over,the path is of NO RETURN!!!
Think again...What say you to bonk or not to bonk?....
For me, I have joined the Dark Side.........very hard to quit leh..... :(

[navras]

going to the "dark side" is still okie. don't go to the "duck side" and screw other guy's back side can liao haha...

me thinks very true. like tasting forbidden fruit, once you try very hard to not want to try again :D

No no,
We are not encouranging duck tales!!! :eek:
We are disuading people from taking the first step into GL,FL,TN,KTV,HC,ONS,TANGO,MINAHS,etc,etc.......
But hor once tried RAW the feeling cannot be described but have to
stay away as the RISK of doing RAW is there......
Best Solution is to get a GF than later upgrade to Wife lor......
hehehehehehehe.........

[V|ernar]

But hor once tried RAW the feeling cannot be described

that true.. every month i still had 3 to 4 times raw..

of coz , not with WL.. or any woman that related to SBforum.

dont want to risk other brothers life.

[navras]

that true.. every month i still had 3 to 4 times raw..

of coz , not with WL.. or any woman that related to SBforum.

dont want to risk other brothers life.

Bro,
You can't stay away from RAW liao.....too shiok to stop....
hehehehehehe....

[V|ernar]

haha , ya lor , at least i did a check up every 4 month.

if tio... maybe i go somewhere like india or some ulu sami place and do some good deeds before i die.. treatment? fuck that.. want to die liao , still treat for fuck?

8 years of chionging.. god still good to me..

i like to thanks my father.. my mother.. err , what the hell i talking abt?

maybe late at night.. cant think properly.. just went to watch kung fu with brother banana , came back abit siao siao..~ :D

[flowerpot]

simi also can cut but cannot cut didi!

i remember watching a very old porn film , 2 girls was bbbj a man that was tied on the pillar.. when he up liao.. a baddie took a stick and beat the didi and after that.. he can only use it for pee...

poor thing..

yoz, bro....
I will NEVER EVER cut my didi lor.....
haha... dun worry...

[V|ernar]

another night wolf... hi brother flowerpot~

maybe we should start a internet chat *like those IRC or sort* for night wolf that cant sleep.. at least can talk rubbish there instead of the forum.

later waste too much space.. boss going to complain? :D

[flowerpot]

lolz.....really cannot slp.... haiz
bro, u still there??

[V|ernar]

ya lor.. i got to work today.. cant sleep.. must well stay awake til the time i work..

[flowerpot]

ya lor.. i got to work today.. cant sleep.. must well stay awake til the time i work..

hahaha.....
maybe, we can look for some chatroom for us to chat........
but it will be best if there's a chat room here in SB...

[V|ernar]

ask boss to set one?

it be fun when all the brothers can talk together , can fix outing in less then 10min..

maybe will be alot of kopi session.. GL and sort..

and flood of newbies asking for FL contact.. joker that spam the channel with crap..

[flowerpot]

ask boss to set one?

it be fun when all the brothers can talk together , can fix outing in less then 10min..

maybe will be alot of kopi session.. GL and sort..

and flood of newbies asking for FL contact.. joker that spam the channel with crap..

but hw can we go abt starting that???
maybe set a poll and ask boss to take a look at the demand...

[V|ernar]

good idea.. i go start one.

see how was it..

[flowerpot]

good idea.. i go start one.

see how was it..

ok!!
I'll be the first to poll....

[navras]

haha , ya lor , at least i did a check up every 4 month.

if tio... maybe i go somewhere like india or some ulu sami place and do some good deeds before i die.. treatment? fuck that.. want to die liao , still treat for fuck?

8 years of chionging.. god still good to me..

i like to thanks my father.. my mother.. err , what the hell i talking abt?

maybe late at night.. cant think properly.. just went to watch kung fu with brother banana , came back abit siao siao..~ :D

How is the movie? worth watching? :)

[V|ernar]

due to so many lousy films in the market now..

this film is really worth watching ~ had a fair share of laugh .

[navras]

due to so many lousy films in the market now..

this film is really worth watching ~ had a fair share of laugh .

OK roger that..... :)

Always wear a raincoat before going out into the wilderness....... :D

[navras]

due to so many lousy films in the market now..

this film is really worth watching ~ had a fair share of laugh .

Bro,
I watched that movie, GL PRC got anyone that resemble like the mute girl
arh? Quite a SYT leh.....
hehehehehehhe :D

[flowerpot]

wah.. bro..
mute gal also wan ah??

[navras]

wah.. bro..
mute gal also wan ah??

She is such a SYT mah....me see already got feeling no IA...
hehhehehehee.... :D

[JBCheongster]

But seriously, I really have no feeling when bonking my GF le....
These few years, had spent at least 10k bonking FL....
Really headache liao... but when bored.nothing to do, will think of FL again.
Any bro experiencing the same plight as me???
Commerical sex is damn addictive n once hook on beri difficult to stop it.
No feeling when bonking ur gf, jia lat liao. Man want sex is normally driven by desire but woman are normally driven by "feeling". Most of the time, we hv a strong urge but the gf may not be in the mood for things, then the gf will jus "entertain" u loh but definitely no shiok 'cos they not beri participative mah. The only way is to find means to rekindle the "feeling" n "mood" in gf. dun noe hw also :p

[flowerpot]

Commerical sex is damn addictive n once hook on beri difficult to stop it.
No feeling when bonking ur gf, jia lat liao. Man want sex is normally driven by desire but woman are normally driven by "feeling". Most of the time, we hv a strong urge but the gf may not be in the mood for things, then the gf will jus "entertain" u loh but definitely no shiok 'cos they not beri participative mah. The only way is to find means to rekindle the "feeling" n "mood" in gf. dun noe hw also :p

lolz//.... then jialat liao....
no means to rekindle the feeling n mood liao......

[Spursgetz]

wah.. bro..
mute gal also wan ah??


Wah bro..mute gal can be good u know. :D

Tried 1 mute gal before, about 2 yr ago. Knew her from irc. Actually that night just wanted some clean chat but after a while, she brought up the topic, saying she need $ for her pte accounting course.

Bro and dad kana retrenched and only mum supporting family. Sad tales lah and told me she tried asking quite a few guys from irc before me but most are NS guys, not serious and also couldn't afford her asking price of $120/shot. Me persuaded her to accept $150/2 shot as told her me very serious, will not play her out.

Told me 1st time doing and asking in irc and felt very ashamed too but doesn want to increase mum burden. On her but my initial thought was that another prank as kana a few times before.

Gave me her hp no at the end of chat and I promised to arrange a date with her soon as her course starting soon and needed the $. Few days later, sms her and went to her place to pick her up. Can see that she very shy and kept worried that I'm those bad guys who will hit and run, or found her not pretty enough then dun want her. Reassured her many times that I won't do that to her.

She has those gal next door look, plain jane, but very innoncent and shy. We communicated with pen and paper and inside hotel room, she just asked me to bath myself, saying she had bathed before coming out.

After bath, saw her hide inside blanket liao and look really shy, dun even dare to look at me. No experience at all as told me only did twice with ex and ex now in aussie study. Mi do all the work and her pussy tasted really fresh and nice, now still miss that kind of smell :p

Basically I did all the pumping, no frenching, no bj, nothing, just some simple catbath from her after much persuasion. Overall quite a unique experience as no moan, nothing from her. But halfway pumping, you can heal some soft "urrg" sound coming out. She really tight and just feel shiok by looking at her facial expression. Later told me she was in pain as too long didn do, mi too big for her.

Didn go for 2nd shot as she really in pain but still paid her $150 as she need for school fees mah. Anyway, she changed her hp no after that. Guessed she afraid I will disturb her or pass her contact to someone else.

well..my one and only experience with a mute gal. If you asked me whether I will do it again, honestly I will but provided she initiated just as my 1st encounter.

[flyingx88]

Really solid FR on the mute girl! :D

[stephenmarkle]

Others may say i should gif my dear but who noes whether i will be alive to got a taste for it or not........... :D
wah u r damn practical n straight-forward man!

[ilovesingapore]

stop engaging in commercial sex and u will find ur sex life with ur gf more satisfying.