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cutebear
27-01-2010, 03:05 PM
My husband and I recently met up with another couple whom we've been talking to for several months.

We have flirted back and forth, talked about hooking up, and exchanged "adult" pictures, even "chatted" over the webcam a few times...it was great, but we lived too far away and the logistics just never worked out, but we got to be great friends.

They are a very happily married couple, just as we are, both bi-curious. We finally were able to meet last month. They visited us at the condo we were staying in on vacation, we drank too much, and eventually wound up nude in the hottub together. After we got out, the king size bed was the closest place to collapse, and we did...and things just flowed from there. It was an awesome experience, and one that I am very excited to repeat. They seem to be, too.

We talk several nights a week. I get along really well with the husband, and my husband gets along really well with the wife or the other couple. He (my husband) and she both aren't crazy about chatting online, and both work weird hours, so its typically the husband and myself who talk most often.

We have built up a very solid friendship, and there are definitely intimate, emotional feelings coming across, at least on my part, and I'm pretty sure from theirs as well. But its not just for him, its for them. I've heard about Polyamoury as an alternate lifestyle, but never truly understood how it works.

Do you think you can truly love, as in be in love, with more than one person, or with a couple, and with your husband?? I don't have any fantasies of breaking apart any relationship, I loved being with both of them, and I loved sharing this experience with my husband. There wasn't the least bit of jealousy from any of us, which I kinda of thought there would be, but it was awesome that there wasn't.


I guess I just wanted to talk to someone who has been through this, and see if what I'm feeling is typical or normal,

number13
27-01-2010, 07:52 PM
I think it's natural to be in love with more than one person at any single time. Sometimes it's hard to define that kind of love but at the end, it's really about how you define being in love that's more important.

I totally understand what you are going through, especially when your husband is working at irregular hours. But have you thought that it may be the concern that you are seeking? Or most likely out of loneliness?

cutebear
28-01-2010, 02:59 PM
I guess it may be true that I am at times a little lonely.

But I love my husband very much. He can’t help it if his work takes him abroad and he has to work at such hours.

Can I get more advice from couples who have this problem too?

How do you cope with this?

block11
28-01-2010, 05:04 PM
Can I get more advice from couples who have this problem too?

How do you cope with this?

advice? hmmm... this section is called "Orgies/Swinging arrangements". maybe you'll get better response here: http://www.sammyboyforum.com/matters-heart ;)

naturegreen
28-01-2010, 09:13 PM
advice? hmmm... this section is called "Orgies/Swinging arrangements". maybe you'll get better response here: http://www.sammyboyforum.com/matters-heart ;)

Roll on the floor Laughing out LouD :D . That's a good one bro.

Xgenre
28-01-2010, 09:58 PM
I think all of us here can save our breath. This TS is a bit weird. There is another thread where the same post is made under another nick. Check this out. http://www.sammyboyforum.com/matters-heart/166920-any-advise.html#post4520238

You may assume this two nicks belongs to a lady but if you follow the post of this nick Snuggles68, you will see that he posted as a guy in this thread. http://www.sammyboyforum.com/welcome-fl-dome-3-free-stds-included/165751-20-years-old-local-north-indian-gal.html.

Are you confused? :confused: Don't know if TS is a guy or girl or a student with too much free time. So don't waste time and energy typing sincere answers.